I had a BFFAEAEAEAEAEAEAE but now she thinks everything I say is stupid. When I say something to her, she rolls her eyes at me and looks at me like I'm crazy. I tried to call her once, and she answered every question with at least two words. Should I try harder, or drop her like a hot potato?
2006-06-19 10:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by Peanut to the rescue! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
P.S. I still miss her.
2006-06-19 10:34:09 · update #1
if she doesnt want to be your friend , you dont want a friend who is mean to you do you? you want to be the strongest person in the relationship always. always hae control!
2006-06-19 10:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by hgtv_yourmama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's a tuff one...same sort of thing happened to me. Every time she asked a question my answer wasn't getting through to her, if she asked if the sky was blue and I said it was she would be indignant that I dared attempt to help her out...once I said in response to her "where can I hang this dripping thing I just dyed", I said "hang it on the porch that way if it drips it will just get the garbage" to which she screamed that was a very mean thing for me to say...WTF. The next day when I tried to talk to her about this sort of thing I made the unforgivable mistake of saying, "when you said such & such, I felt...." I didn't get any farther, I was stopped dead in my tracks by her violent response..."Those are your feelings! Own them! I'm not responsible for how you feel" What a ******* cop out...She was staying at my house for the weekend...what fun it was driving her everywhere she wanted to go...She's done this before...last time it was some arbitrary thing a stranger had told her I said about her (I said she does well at everything she tries, the stranger said I said she gets handed everything and doesn't have to work for anything)...after months of ignoring me I finally got through to her and her reason for not answering my calls was "if you don't know what you did to me then I don't have to tell you, you should just know" After banging my head against the wall I say just drop her.
2006-06-19 17:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something obviously happened and your friendship seems to be gone, especially if she can't tell you about it. I think its time you let that go. Don't spend all of your energy on someone like that.
2006-06-19 17:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would never think of doing that.
2006-06-19 17:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by MayberryNR5 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say drop her becasue shes not a true friend then
2006-06-19 17:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not sound like she acts like a friend, tell her to piss off
2006-06-19 17:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would drop hae real fast
2006-06-19 17:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her because she has already dropped you
2006-06-19 17:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her
2006-06-19 17:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by babyblue88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she is not i had a friend like that and seal do so no she not your bff
2006-06-19 17:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by hottie girl66678 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋