ok i live in louisiana with my mom and i come to new york to see my dad in the summer and i was was talking to kayla 1 of 2 of my best friends and she said that her and harper (my other best friend) were fighting. i asked her why and she said that harper was over at her house cause she was bored so she invited him over to swim cause her boyfriend was grounded. then her boyfriend called (both me and harper don't get along with her boyfriend thomas) any way kayla was talking to thomas on the phone and then he herd harper in the back round and got all mad and hung up on her. then she told harper to go home. then hat night harper and kayla were i.m.ing each other and harper got all mad cause kayla told him to go home just cause her boyfriend didnt want him alone with her. so he caled her a whore. then they both called that night ad told me all about it .Me and harper both think Her boyfriend controls her he is aways arguing with me and harper. Pleasecan some body help me what do i do!
2006-06-19 10:03:34 · 8 answers · asked by Kay-Kay!pray4us durring GUSTAV!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that your friends should stop fighting, this guy is not worth it. Let them know how important thier friendship is to you and that you dont want to lose any of them because of a stupid boy. If you dont want to be caught in the middle of this fight for ever I suggest that you tell your friends to lose the guy and continue with their friendship. After all little fights like these strengthen friendships. Good Luck
2006-06-19 10:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Hottie! 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I really don't want to be offense, But if #2 has done so many bad things, why are you her friend anyway? And, tell #2 the hard truth but nicely, but you have to get #1's permission first. And if #1 says no get away from the situation.
2016-05-20 02:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to be caught in the middle of an argument. Tell your friends that you like them both and can't stand for them to continuing arguing. If possible, get them together and help everyone sort this out. Good friends are hard to come by.
2006-07-03 09:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he controls her i think that she should not be with him and if she wants to be with him and sort of in a way ditch her best friend thats not right and u should let her do what she thinks is right and hang out with your other friend and stay away from her for awhile while her and her boyfriend cool off a little.
2006-07-02 18:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer
1 (800) 96-JERRY
2006-06-28 00:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take sides and tell them both that you're not going too, because if you do there will come a time when they ask you to choose.
2006-06-19 10:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a pool, i got 30 bucks on this harper kid
2006-06-19 10:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by woundshurtless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and her need to step aside and let her and her boyfriend work it out on their own, there is nothing more you or your friend can do.
2006-07-02 18:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by apleasure2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋