Someone I met on here told me you have no business sleeping with someone unless you are prepared to tell them anything and everything that crosses your mind. Not that you necessarily do, but you shouldn't have any secrets. Is this good advice or not?
2006-06-19 10:02:42 · 6 answers · asked by Karl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
All good advice--but what do you do you if you've changed and you're in a committed relationship. Things that didn't used to be important are now very important and I'm not communicating these because she wouldn't undertstand. What to do, what to do??
2006-06-19 11:20:00 · update #1
No, that's not good advise. Nobody needs to know everything about you and you can have your own thoughts without having to share them. The only time you need to share is when your in a committed relationship and the topic directly effects them.
2006-06-19 10:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Somethings are better left alone. And I agree with JustMe, that the only things you *have* to share are the one's that directly effect him/her and your relationship together. But there are things that you have every right to keep to your self - embarassing or painful memories; if there's something in the past that you're ashamed of - maybe you're not the same person today that you were 5 years ago.
2006-06-19 18:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Peaches M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the best advice id head to. i was prolly tha one who told u that! bc i agree and that's what id say to do as well.
2006-06-19 17:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by kkaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Telling people what is on your mind can get you into trouble.
2006-06-19 17:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by a_poor_misguided_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad, bad, bad
2006-06-19 17:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a better wat of putting it would be to be honest with them
2006-06-19 17:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by zombie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋