I just met someone who knows the person I started loving 8 years back. She ended up getting married to someone and has two kids now. Needless to say that I still love her and will always do.
What will you do if you are feeling like this and you see them ? Would you know say hello and talk to them or will not interact with them (hide on the first sight) and just leave them with their own life.?
I personally will hide and will not talk to her but was wondering what other guys/girls will do.
2006-06-19 09:58:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with tobmall 100%. there is no need to avoid her. Ask how she is, wish her well & move about. She has moved on & one of the only ways you can is to not forget about her but to remember how it was to love her & know that you are capable of doing so with someone else. Just becasue she is your ex doesn't mean you have to avoid her altogether or stop loving her. Just stop loving her in a bf/gf type of way. I keep in contact with my ex's & some of their fam members. There is a reason why I fell in love in love with them & just because we didnt work out in a commited relationship doesn't mean we still cant be friends. Even if it's just hi & bye.
2006-06-19 11:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by La Prieta 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love is a wonderful feeling yet it can also be the most painful when one has been rejected. It is OK to love her after all you can't help about how you feel, but it is also just as important to realize that you can't help or change how she responds to you. If you truly love her, be happy for her and wish her and her new husband well any time you see them. There will be someone out there for you and you can find true love again but only if you are willing to let past relationships go and begin looking for Miss Right. Be as successful as you can and keep your chin up. Life is to short to dwell on something that obviously was not meant to be no matter how much you wanted it to.
Good luck on your quest
2006-06-19 17:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by tobmall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk past her and say hi! You just have to deal with and accept that she has a life now!
2006-06-19 17:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I avoid them. The past is the past and I don't have room for people like that in my life.
2006-06-19 17:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wud talk to him just so can walk the oppisite way to were am meant to be goin just to see his **** and then to undress him with my eyes
2006-06-19 17:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by temple_lynne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would love to find my first true love....but i would say hello..and see how her life is
2006-06-19 17:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by ShannL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree talk to him!!
2006-06-19 17:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by CortneyLynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone, let them go.. blah blah blah
2006-06-19 17:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by Amber Jumelez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
h will be cry
2006-06-19 17:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋