can you trust someone who likes to avoid confrontation??

Question

can i trust him to be faithful to me???

Answer 1

Of course you can! Being trustworthy has NOTHING to do with being confrontational. They are two totally different things.

I am a person who doesn't like confrontations/fights unless I have to be in them. My fiance is the same way. We will confront someone/fight IF we have to, it is unavoidable, they really 'push our buttons,' etc, but won't otherwise. I grew up in a household where there was fighting all the time. It was the same with me and my ex husband. He would fly off the handle for any and every thing, small or large. I do NOT want that in my life anymore, and refuse to have it.

So, if someone doesn't want to be confrontational/to fight, then they have their reasons: they grew up in a home with it and don't want any part of it anymore; had a relationship with it and don't want that again; are scared of what will happen to them or of hurting someone else's feelings. Some, but not all, people who aren't confrontational won't be there when something big comes up that needs tending to. But, that doesn't mean that all of us are like that.

Answer 2

I don't think being trustworthy has anything to do with avoiding or confronting. It is a different personality trait. Generally people that avoid confrontation are either afraid of their own anger control or don't feel they are strong enough to get their point of view across effectively. I don't think it is a trust issue at all.

Answer 3

About the only thing you can "trust" is that they won't be able to be found if there's any kind of confrontation. People who avoid it generally waffle or are afraid to say what they really think, if they believe it will ruffle some feathers or cause someone to argue with them or be upset.

So, can you trust them with your life? Maybe. As long as they don't have to face somebody with a strong opinion about it.

Answer 4

i'd be mad and that i see why she is largely because I actually have worked there and distinct the adult men that ought to are available in were flirts they did not care in the adventure that they were married. what number females I worked with met maximum of their bf's. So yeah myself and my friends flirted our butts off when we will be operating, better information for us by ability of far and we would get reg customers that way as well. So no i don't think of he could misinform her why conceal the actual truth the position he replaced into? If he did not choose a conflict of words then he could no longer have went in the first position.

Answer 5

if the confrontation u mean is talking, then yes. its not going to get better if ur w someone who doesnt talk or like to resolve things. anyone else, in my opinion yes. u can trust them, but not to have ur back,no

Answer 6

Yes, you can. Just because they want to avoid confrontation doesn't mean they are untrustworthy - it just means they don't like to argue or have a disagreement.