Instead of going up to him and asking him straight up, "Hey, do you like me like I like you? Because I really like you," go up to him and introduce yourself. Tell him you saw him and he looks like an interesting guy, and if he's in a class with you ask him what he thinks of your class and/or your teacher. If you try the straightforward approach, he will bolt like a wild horse. But I don't think you should give up, either. Just have conversation with him, ask him things about himself like you're interested but not like a reporter. Smile a lot, but don't fake those smiles. Make eye contact with him, and act confident. If it helps you, pretend like you're role playing and your character is very confident around men. Picture him with underwear on his head, anything to keep you from slipping into doubt while standing in front of him. And keep your crush vibes down! Don't think ahead--live only in the moment of the conversation. Be nonchalant--if he's cute, there are probably other girls who are throwing themselves at him. Be different, don't even begin to offer him your all, just a little taste here and there of who you are and he will wonder about you--give this method a chance and you might actually find him asking for your phone number.
2006-06-19 09:16:52
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answered by Princess Toadstoolie 3
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Why can't kids just go to school and study? You have to be a strong person before contemplating asking him, as you may get rejection or redicule or worse than that, he goes around advertising the fact that you have the hots for him!
2006-06-19 09:08:09
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answered by angieasee64 6
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ask him hun! u don't want to regret not asking him! go talk to him and see if he feels the same way! if he doesn't then you guys can still be friends, if he does, then great! hun, just go for it and see what happens. you'll never know unless you try. k hun? oh! and one more thing, be funny with him! guys like girls that they have something in common with! be yourself and play it cool. tell a joke or somethin just to get the conversation goin! i hope i helped you. good luck! have a nice day and god bless : )
2006-06-19 09:03:23
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answered by lil_bit_a_evrythang 3
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First of all, this isn't the right category to ask this, but anyway...
Just be confident and give him signs. Act as pleasant and sweet as possible. And visit MyJellybean.com if you want some great flirting tips!
2006-06-19 10:06:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Sweetheart, life is too short to just give up on a guy! Tell him how you feel! If he likes you, then great and if not, then it is his loss! Either way, you'll know and who knows, you might end up with a boyfriend! You'll never know until you try! You deserve to know for yourself.
2006-06-19 09:04:34
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answered by â?¥Manuelaâ?¥ 3
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dont tell him straight forward- it might scare him. show him instead. be really nice to him, listen to what he says attentively, flirt, smile, if he does a favor for you give him a really quick hug. or if theres a concert, school dance, or other event in your town ask him if hes going. a friend of mine asked her crush if he was going to a concert that night and they ended up going out for 2 years and even after they broke up they are still friends. so dont be afraid to ask about things but usually guys dont like to be confronted like that if you go up to them and say "hey i realli like you". best of luck!
2006-06-19 09:18:38
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answered by hoboboho93 2
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just ask him itll be okay. tell him that u think that hes nice and cute and sweete and watever else u want 2 tell him
2006-06-19 09:00:24
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answered by dreamgirl101 2
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you shouldn't give up! Ask him out straightly and hopes he feels the same way...if not then there are always other fishes in the sea.
2006-06-19 09:00:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Why don't you have a friend of your ask him if 1 he is seeing anyone.if not just suck it up and tell him a funny joke if you dont have one just ASK for one.
2006-06-19 09:03:56
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answered by TC76 1
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firstly try to be friends with him and know him better before asking him anything. but i think you are fascinated towards him so wait for sometime and you will realize that's just attraction!!!
2006-06-19 09:06:15
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answered by Anonymous
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