so yeh the guy i love knows i'm in love with him but i think he only wants to be friends. i don't want to force him into loving me...he'd do that in his own time, i just need him to see that we're good for each other. so he told me that his best pal was into me, and i believed it, but now my friends asked the guy and he said he wasnt, but i had already told the guy i loved i didnt love the guy who loves me. ?. but that means the guy i love is a liar. i say ignore him. any other solutions. do i need a heart to heart with him or a point black ignore him
2006-06-19 08:44:15 · 10 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The writting is on the wall. Move on, it's time!!!
2006-06-19 08:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell the guy how you truly feel. Let him know that by lying... thats hurt you even more. If he was really a true friend, he wouldnt have done that in the first place. Really tho, sometimes, you cant make someone like/ love you. Men are weird like that. Maybe he will come around and realize what hes been missing. The kicker is to show and interest in someone else... maybe a closer friend of his... or someone he would least expect... but dont do it for him... do it for you. If you really are TURLY and madly in love with this man... dont get too attached.
2006-06-19 15:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by Amber Cullen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears the guy you love was trying to move your attention to someone else in telling you that guy was interested in you.
I'd say you should back off and look for someone who really might be 'into you' instead of wasting time hoping this guy will see the light.
2006-06-19 16:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a heart to heart with him belive it or not i am in eactly the same jam but im going to set him down and tell him that this friend bussines has got to step up or end
2006-06-19 15:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by lil_bit_ 44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need some therapy. no, j/k. i'm not that mean! just be friends, don't be obsessive. if love is in the cards, it'll happen in its own time. don't throw yourself at him... thats just annoying, and makes you look like a fool if he;'s not into you. best wishes.
2006-06-19 15:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Max 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not rush him or ignore him if you rush him he would just say something or just stop talking to you,but if you ignore him it would seem childish and as if you are mad for no reason but if he dosen't love you it is his lost.
2006-06-19 15:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Chanitell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out waht he likes then surprise him but if he cant see the real you then there is no hope for yall in the future but keep trying that might get his attention
2006-06-19 15:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl u need to talk to him and just explain to him ur situation then maybe he'll understand ne how if he dosn't forget bout him he's the one missin out on you. hope this helps! good luck!
2006-06-19 15:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would simply just talk to him and ask him why he lies to you and all this other stuff but if he lies to you while your talking to him say hmmm ok well i got to go then just simply plain out ignore his butt!
2006-06-19 15:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by Caylee's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how children well play games you need to ingore him
2006-06-19 15:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋