ive been wit my man 3 years and counting, but his sister is in the way a little bit. i mean she is always staring at me!!! you know kinda like she dont want me to know she is. when i look her way she looks the other way??!! what the hell!! and the mom is pretty pleasent but she stares at me too.. and sometimes she looks kinda mean. the sisters boyfriend does it sometimes but not enough for me to care. i mean what is the deal with the staring i thought i was paranoid but just yesterday my girlfriend brought it to my attention!! and her girl too. so which means they are actually doing this. WHY? what should i do? to top it off she swears up and down she dosent have a problem with me but yet and still shes always looking at me.
2006-06-19 08:41:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
have you checked to make sure there is nothing in your teeth.
2006-06-19 08:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by sbg172002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well do you know them and how well do they know you? Yeah, you've been with their son/brother for 3 years, but do you know much about each other. They may still be trying to figure out who you are. People tend to base their opinions on appearances and have a hard time reconciling the attitude of a person to the appearance - hence staring to try to read you. The sister's boyfriend is probably just feeling he is missing something too and following their stare to see what it is.
2006-06-19 09:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jill M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been with this guy 3 yrs and his female family members are still staring like you are new to the relationship, there's something they are not saying. It could be something about him that they are aware of and wondering when you may figure it out or why he hasn't shown himself for that particular reason. Otherwise, I would ask them outright, if they have a problem with your appearance, or if they are just intrigued with your beauty. You have chosen one positive factor in the situation, and that's to star at them eye to eye when this is occurring. If you want this guy in your life, then let them know that intimidation won't chase you off. Make sure you always look your best whenever they are around, and make them feel jealous, which could be a part of the reason.
2006-06-19 08:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because they know you are beautiful and they feel intimidated by your looks. Sounds a little bit like jealousy in the sister dept. She probably tells her mom and boyfriend about you. Instead they should be proud your dating her brother/son and not taking away there old man! HEHE!! Good luck!
2006-07-02 20:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like she does b/c you of direction have her interest peaked or she wouldnt be consistently asking about you. she would experience like you dont experience an same or perhaps she is uncertain if shes "bodily" attracted and needs different's enter previously pursuing you..if she does. she is often very shy and in a small way wish you're over listening to her and take the convenience off through you pursuing her as a substitute. in case you want her, identity in simple terms mind-set her and bypass from there!
2016-11-14 23:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they like the way you look. Don't be paranoid about this. This is not necessarily a bad thing. They are probably just interested in you.
2006-06-19 08:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably admire you,or jealous of you.
I know the feeling it gets annoying when they keep staring at you. I crackup doe when I turn my head and I can feel them and see them from the side of my eye ( my parivi-ale vision) watching me, I would turn my head fast and catch them and stare back at them until they turn they head back. I LIKE when' they know I caught them.
girl it is all good , I use to ask my mother that same question and she said if they stop looking then, that is when you worry about it , I JUST LAUGHED, but know you get used to it and pay it no mind of play with them.
2006-06-19 08:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and ask her wut her problem is cuz she has no bizness in lookin ur way doit calmly and nicely so she wont suspect ne thing hope this helps!
2006-06-19 08:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are interested in you? Are they like that? Perhaps you should consider that?
2006-06-19 08:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your man might be telling them that your mean or something..
2006-06-20 05:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by tripany_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋