2006-06-19 08:37:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my opinion, it is normal for men to want to see two woman together. It's a major turn on for them. BUT when you are married, it changes things a little. Trust becomes an issue, and there are a lot of feelings involved! I think that with single people, it's a different thing, but married people should be a little cautious!
2006-06-19 08:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 8⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for men to have a fantasy about this...It is also common for the men to ask the wife/girlfriend to try it.
It is only the prudish woman who says "NO" outright with out trying to find out why her mate has asked such a question. Perhaps it is the wife/girlfriend who secrectly would like to try such an encounter but is to afraid of rejection by her mate.
In any event both partners must have a deep devotion to each other and a very...very ... strong trust of each other before engaging in activities such as this.
Next to the fact ....."DON"T KNOCK IT TILL YOU"VE TRIED IT !!!"
2006-06-19 08:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Hornyus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of men have the fantasy of two women. Why they would want to disappoint two women I don't know, but they think they can handle it. So it's perfectly normal for the fantasy. Acting on it means he's looking for a "loophole" to cheat. Unless you've got an open marriage, something is wrong.
2006-06-19 08:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought about being with another women???
What if you tried it and realized that you may not want to be with men anymore or that you like being with both.
I too am married and i am sure that it has crossed my husbands a few times. But the concerns i have are those, what if i like it!
2006-06-19 08:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by misscanada_y2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal to be a FANTASY, also something that many men either ask about...or go around it jokingly....just to see what kind of reaction they will get. I wouldnt do it though, never heard of a truly good experience....
2006-06-19 09:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mz_AmanDA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a common male fantasy. If he persists, and you are not into it, tell him you will consider it after you have another man join in.
2006-06-19 08:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! This way is saves him the trouble and risk of having a secret affair... Which is what he really wants, because he's getting bored with the same old thing...
2006-06-19 08:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a normal fantasy...but fantasies should remain fantasy...and bringing another in a marriage never normal.
2006-06-19 08:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal fantasy but in reality most guys can't really handle it.
2006-06-19 08:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be normal to my husband or even considerate w/ my husband and me.
Although,, I am sure that it is "normal" for some,,,, but not me.
2006-06-19 08:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by Paige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋