i feel so in love with him,but hate him at the same time...he hurt me so badly including ingnoring me,but the only reason was his gf didnt want him to talk to me anymore,i just dont know what to do,please help me!!!
2006-06-19 08:20:56 · 33 answers · asked by naturegirl625 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes, get rid of him.
There is so much fish in a sea. Dont waste your time. I wasted my time few times and trust me, it is not worth it.
There is a saying: The Man who is worth it will never make you cry (or ignore, or .....)
2006-06-19 08:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Desert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you feel this way, and I can sympathize, been there myself. I'm not sure if I'm reading your message correctly, but you love this guy and he has a girlfriend? If that's the case, then you're only hurting yourself by hanging around. If he's willing to hurt you, then he's not worth your affections. I know that's probably not the answer you wanted to hear, but unfortunately, I'm talking from experience. Even after the gf went away, he still acted like a jerk. Suddenly it was my fault she dumped him.
The best thing for you to do (my opinion) is to remove yourself from the equation. He's with her, she doesn't want him talking to you, and you're getting hurt. I know it hurts and it sucks, but let him go. If nothing else, you'll stop hurting. If he feels the same way about you, then he'll be back in your life. But until then, you'll be living your life. Then if he doesn't come back, you won't have wasted your time. If he's choosing to ignore you for her, then he's not worth your time anyway. I hope things go well for you... good luck.
2006-06-19 08:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if he has a girlfriend then he's not the one for you anyway. In order a relationship to work - he would have to love you back. If he has a girlfriend, then that's not going to happen. And even if it did - can you trust a man who could leave a girl so easily?
Hang out with some different friends for awhile. Focus on the things in life that you enjoy. In time, your feelings for this guy will not feel quite so strong and it will be possible to look to someone else for affection. There is nothing else you can do when the feeling isn't mutual. You simply can't just make someone love you.
2006-06-19 08:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on who? A guy friend or a ex lover. If it is a ex lover YES give up on him and move on. If you hate him and love him at the same time then you two are not ment to be together. He has a girlfriend who knows that something isn't right. Stop talking to him, move on, find someone new, and get confidence in yourself. I dated a guy similer to this one, only he didn't know what he wanted and I relized that he was holding me back. MOVE ON!!! I know that is hard but you need to. You will relize it is for the best when you find a guy who treats you like a queen
2006-06-19 08:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by luvcupid82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well was this him a close friend? Does he know how you feel? If you were supposed to be friends and he lets a girl tell him that he can no longer see you then maybe you should evaluate the friendship. He may just like playing games with you and it can be really painful i have been there. i think you should try ignoring him for a bit.
2006-06-19 08:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear lord child, forget him. MOVE ON. You think youre the only one with this type of problem? Guess what, been there done that. If you feel like you hate and love him then chances are its NIETHER. Get over him. He's so not worth getting hurt for. You are more valuable then being hurt and confused. F*ck him. Remember that you should be treated like GOLD not like sh*t
2006-06-19 08:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could use more details, what happened?
Sounds like his g/f made him choose between the two of you.
Personally, I would've chosen you. No girl has or will ever make me choose between my friends and them.
If you really love him, then talk to him!
At the very least you'll feel better.
2006-06-19 08:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by blackwolf917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your crush? If he has a girlfriend then is he really worth it? Is he cheating on her with you? Do you really want to be the other girl? If he breaks up with her and goes out with you don't he think he might cheat on you? Can he really be trusted? I really don't understna dyou situation, but if it has anything to do with that, then you have to think about what he's doing and how it will affect your life.
2006-06-19 08:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELATIONSHIPS ARE PAINFUL NO MATTER WHAT AGE.....ITS NORMAL ALSO TO HAVE A LOVE HATE RELATIONSHIP...THOUGH IT IS VERY EXHAUSTING ....WE ALL DESERVE TO BE LOVED AND RESPECTED AND THERE IS SOME OUT THERE FOR ALL OF US......DOES HE KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ..YOU SAID THAT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND SOME THINGS SHOULD BE TABOO....UNLESS THEY ARE NO LONGER TOGETHER ASK HIM OUT....IF HE IS ANGRY WITH YOU TELL HIM THE TRUTH ...LYING NEVER HELPS....ESPECIALLY A POSSIBLE RELATIONSHIP...IF HE STAYS ANGRY WITH YOU TRY TO GET OVER HIM AS QUICKLY AS YOU CAN....ANGER IS SOMETHING THAT CAN MEAN TROUBLE.........
2006-06-19 08:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by kathy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let whatever happens happen. You can't go through life worrying about changing other people. You have to be strong and do you. Everything else will fall into place.
2006-06-19 08:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by touchemupent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋