...but he is the sweetest, kindest person I've ever met. He puts me on a pedastal, does everything he can for me, but he has no car, no money, a huge stack of debt and creditors chasing him all over. He has unpaid tickets, no show- court date sfor traffic violations..how can I help him? He's trying he really is- don't get the wrong impression of him- but how can I help him without paying for it all myself? I love him, and I want this to work, but I can't support him. Sometimes love isn't all you need.
2006-06-19 08:17:27 · 3 answers · asked by shawny4me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well- he has a job and pays his own rent, and he works full time and goes to school full time. He is trying to get himself out of his hole, but he needs help, and his parents cannot help him, they have their own finances to worry about- a live in (crazy) grandaughter causing them a lot of grief, and sons that just wont move out and stay away.
2006-06-19 08:29:06 · update #1
You say you dont want us to get the wrong impression but your telling us you think he's a loser. I'm sure he didn't become this way after meeting you so he's always been this way. I could never be with someone who wasn't responsible with those kind of things since I am. If you ever marry then you will be liable for all that he does. Unless he wants to clean up his act there is nothing you can do. And for god sake dont pay his way out.
2006-06-19 08:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 10⤊ 4⤋
Get away for a while at least he needs time to himself.....he depends on everyone else to do his stuff
2006-06-19 15:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by kong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no love isnt everything if he really loves you he will take care of all of this and get his life toghether.you need to let him go . get away now he will only drag you down with him i speak from experience.
2006-06-19 15:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by joy lebriton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋