2006-06-19 08:15:42 · 108 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
choose your best friend coz ur there are many other guys you could date.
2006-06-19 08:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by ta nia 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
We need more info. Is your bestfriend causing waves in the relationship? Sometimes a friend can get jealous of the time you are spending with a new love interest and try to make trouble. If that is the case, then you need to talk to your buddy and explain the situation. Or your boyfriend could be super controlling and trying to block you off from your friends so he can manipulate you. Sit down and think really hard about what is going on here.
2006-06-19 08:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by anniewalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
what kind of guy is your boyfriend? What kind of person is your best friend? What are the reasons he is making you choose?
If this friend is bad for you - say this friend is pushing you to do drugs or something like that - then your boyfriend could be looking out for you and he could have a point.
If your boyfriend is selfish and only wants you to himself - is he worth losing a friendship over?
If your friend is a good friend and your boyfriend is just being selfish - remember that boyfriends tend to come and go but friendships tend to last a lifetime.
Listen to your heart. What feels right here? Go with that.
2006-06-19 08:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why doesn't he like your best friend? It's never good to be put in corner and forced to choose between two. Is this the only person your boy friend doesn't want you around? Can you say controlling?
2006-07-03 14:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by knowsnothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose your best friend. Your boyfriend should encourage you to have friends, especially a best friend. If he wants you to choose it's because he's not concerned with your happiness. Keep your best friend and dump the boyfriend.
2006-07-03 08:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so unfair to you. You have to think carefully about someone who would put you in that kind of position. Is that someone who is looking out for your best interests? It doesn't seem so. People who are jealous and insecure usually come up with ultimatums like this. Two very bad traits in a mate.
You want a boyfriend who is going to look out for you and want the best for you. Also, your best friend has probably been around through thick and thin. Those people are important to have in your life.
2006-06-19 08:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO MUCH TO SAY! Omgsh...pick your friend for definate tell that jacka$$ that u pick ur best friend, also ask him why he wants u to choose between him and ur bestfriend. He is oviously controling and have jealousy issus. Tell him that u think hes an @$$hole and thn get a new boyfriend (make sure u like him tho) and makeout wit him rit infront of that bas-te-rd
2006-07-03 14:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump that jerk. To find a guy is easy enough but a best friend, very difficult. N anyways think about urself what kind of a friend would u be????????? nobody would ever like 2 b friends with u if they *** to know that ur a kinda person who dumps best friends 4 a botfriend.
I know it'll probably b very difficult 4 u but just think about it ur boyfriends demand only makes it obvious that he's a selfish loser with no life and no heart!!!
2006-07-02 00:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your best friend! There will be other guys...
and if people really care about you, they are OK with you having friends and don't make you choose. This guy is controlling, which is a form of abuse, get out now before it gets worse.
2006-06-19 08:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how long have you been together with your boyfriend? how long have you and your friend been best friends? your boyfriend should never put u in that situation. boyfriends never last like friends do! he oviously has a jealousy thing going on. friends are forever! boyfriends come and go! now if you were married that would be a different situation. choose your best friend by far.....
2006-07-03 06:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose your Bestfriend... a bestfriend will always be there for ya no matter what a boy... may last a week a month or maybe a year or so if your lucky.... and if hes making you choose ... then hes really not worth it because someone who truely cares for you wouldnt put you in that kind of situation!
2006-07-02 17:12:32 · answer #11 · answered by Runningtoproveapoint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋