When men and women have discussions & arguments, they have different perspectives. Men tend to stick to reason, facts and problem solving; whereas women tend to be emotional/intuitive. Sometimes, the emotional response is better, and many guys know that. There are many exceptions, but this tends to be the way that it is.
I'm not referring to a guy who is equally emotional and manifests this with rage etc..., nor am I talking about guys who have no concept of the emotional needs of women. I'm talking about guys who feel they have to listen to unreasonable, unfair nagging and arguments about what to buy, fix, or do with their time.
Is there some reason that a guy should put up with this other than to appease his woman?
2006-06-19 08:15:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All this seems to stem from a breakdown in communication. Granted, women tend to react more on an emotional level and men on an analytical one, but what needs to be achieved is a happy medium between both. You seem to be making the assumption that no woman can be rational. If this is the case, you may be dating the wrong women my dear! Guys who "talk about their feelings" tend to get the ladies' attention, and don't get the arguements and nagging as often. However, I'm not talking about men who are clingy and needy, and seem more like they need a mother than a partner. I'm talking about a man who is willing to tell their partner when he's angry, hurt, frustrated, sad, happy, excited, etc. We all have our secrets, but our emotions shouldn't always be one of them. If you're girl isn't willing to listen to your "rationalization" then perhaps you need to be on the hunt again. But if you're not willing to talk about your feelings occaisionally, then guess what? There are nothing but fights in your future.
2006-06-19 08:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by bibliophile_1976 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
quickly learn that women are right, all the time....as soon as you are able to keep your ego in check and realize this, the happier you will be...there is no need to argue with a woman, you cannot win....acquiesce and you'll be closer to the nooky than you were before and this is all that really matters
2006-06-19 08:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋