Is it just me??? I am 35 weeks pregnant and have no urge what so ever to make love. It's not my husband either. He has been wonderful and I feel stronger for him than ever. Will this pass and why do I not want to??? Please tell me this is temporary and after the baby things will be better.
2006-06-19 07:31:36 · 8 answers · asked by Angie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Though it is common belief that all women do get horny later in the pregnancy, that is not an absolute law. In fact, there are no absolute laws when it comes to pregnancy. Since every woman is different and every woman's body checmistry is completely different, it is impossible to say something it absolutely true in all pregnancies. You were obviously sexually attracted to your husband before you got pregnant (hence the prenancy). I am sure that you will be again after the baby is born. I (as your doctor likely will) suggest that you refrain from intercourse for a few weeks after the birth to allow for proper healing and things, but you will likely want it. The problem will be finding time and energy to get it with the demands of the new baby. You will be fine, you are not wierd, it is just a difference with your pregnancy. Don't worry at all. If you go the full pregnancy without sex at all, I am sure that you will want it, and likely want it pretty badly, after the birth of the child.
Oneo ther warning, it may take a while for your hormones to level out closer to normal after the birth. So if you feel moody still or something like that, don't worry. That too will pass.
2006-06-19 07:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by The Shadow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah this feeling should pass. It may be because it's almost time for the baby to be born, and your sex drive is lowered. After the birth of your baby (a few weeks afterwards, possibly 6-8 weeks), your sex drive should return back to normal. Of course, it will take time to get adjusted to certain things, but in time, your sex drive will return to normal. If you need any help, there are always tapes or other things to help you out along the way. Hope this helps. Congrats on your birth and I wish you nothing but the best!!
2006-06-19 07:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kerra L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a temporary thing Most people that get pregant have no urge to do things because they feel scared or really dont want it make your husband dinner.. he will only have to wait a little bit longer for the love
2006-06-19 07:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by tinka01247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing at 35 weeks he's not licking the muffin anymore.. This should help yo get back in the swing of things after the baby arrives... Am I right ladies?
2006-06-19 07:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes honey it is normal and it is also your body's way of saying get some rest now while you can relax as much as possible sleep lounge and all that good stuff cause that baby maybe coming a little sooner than you think. Congrats on the baby and good luck Honey
2006-06-19 07:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! the same happens to me ut im 32 weeks pregnant! I lost appetite a long time ago. Sometimes I feel like bad for him! haha but anywayz I think its just normal. Some girls are more sexually active than others:s who knows....Good Luck...Everything will be better its just your hormones
2006-06-19 07:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by Pretty_LeLii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound normal to me, and it will only be temporary things will get better. Good Luck and Congrats.
2006-06-19 07:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by halochick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think one of the best sources for information regarding your questions about pregnancy can be found at:
http://www.epregnancy.com/
We have found the information there reliable and supportive.
Best wishes.
2006-06-19 08:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by blewz4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋