well, my bestfriend likes my boyfriend, and they ARE friends with each other, but he's MY boyfriend and now when ever I bring him up she gets really jelous and starts moping around all day...but when ever she brings him up i get a little jelous too cuz she will see him alot more than i will and i am afraid something might happen, and then i will probbly get really mad at her and then we might not be friends anymore....can you give me advice on how to help this situation???
2006-06-19 07:30:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay...you call her your "best friend". I know that my best friend would never interfere with my relationship. Does she for sure like him? Because that is really low of her. And if you are nervous about them doing anything, it sounds like you dont fully trust your boyfriend either. Am I right? A good friend and a good boyfriend should both love and respect you. And you shouldn't worry that you wont be friends with her anymore, because a TRUE "best" friend will stick with ya forever. I think you need to question your friendships and relationships. Ask yourself these questions...
*Do she and my boyfriend flirt?
*Does he have a better time hanging out with you when she is there?
*Does your friend talk about him more than she should and wants to hang out with him a lot?
*How long have I known this girl?
*What have we fought about in the past?
Good luck to ya...Really you should just step back and examine your relationships. YOu could realize that these people are not who you think they are.
2006-06-19 07:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a "sticky" situation. Obviously there isn't really enough trust there because you are questioning some issues. If there isn't trust in a relationship (any relationship - friend or bf) - then there's something very wrong. You don't trust either of them.....think about why that is.
2006-06-19 14:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my friend was "moping" around whenever I talked about my man, and it was a serious relationship, I would tell my friend to hit the road. I would also talk to my boyfriend about it and explain the reasoning behind it.
2006-06-19 14:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by sbg172002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!
I think you should talk to her. She is your bff. Tell her straight forward on how you feel. Tell her she probably wouldn't like it if she was in your shoes.(in your position). She should understand,...shes your bff. If she doesn't then that's her problem and you deserve a better friend than her. Good luck! :)
2006-06-19 14:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋