Why is this happening??

Question

Im 29 years old, I have got 2 children 1 girl and 1 boy, my husband has a daughter also.. we have been tryin for a baby of our own for a year now I got pregnant last month but lost the baby, this was my 8th pregnancy 2 healthy children and 6 miscarraiges, I know that we are lucky to have the kids that we have and I love them so much it hurts but the pain of not having my husbands chid is terrible, is there anything I can do to concieve more easily and keep hold of the baby till term????

Answer 1

My friend had a recurrent miscarriage problem and was, eventually, referred to the Women's Hospital - they adivsed her very simply to take aspirin as it would help the chances of the embryo 'taking' in her womb (I've no idea why, I'm not medical and I wouldn't advise trying this without medical supervision). I would suggest that you go to your GP and ask his/her advice about being referred to a specialist. Once you've done everything you possibly can it might help stop the guilt you are no doubt feeling and heal the pain, whatever the outcome. Good luck.

Answer 2

I am a little miffed as to why this keeps happening. I guess you have had all the tests done? Has anything been detected like polycystic ovaries, or a problem in the cervix?

I'm not for one minute suggesting this hasn't been done but it would be perhaps a little more reassuring if you knew why. Maybe there is no reason and it's just the wrong time..

I do hope that one day you have you bless your husband with a child- i had a miscarriage with my husband so i know what u are going through- although the second attempt was a success. Good luck anyway be positive it will happen x

Answer 3

I have lost 3 babies at different stages and on my fourth pregnancy I was diagnosed with SLE Lupus. I had to have 2 injections everyday to thin my blood from 6 weeks until full term this was so the baby would survive. Thankfully I have a 5 year old son and I am pregnant again after taking Clomid a fertility drug and now I am 17 weeks pregnant again I have to take injections everyday but it works!!!
Some women have to take Aspirin or Fragmin injections to thin the blood this is because sometimes the blood is too thick and causes you to miscarry at any time. Speak to your GP for advice. I hope everything works out for you in the end it did with me. Good Luck :-)

Answer 4

You really should consult your gynecologist for this one.

Some couples can suffer from secondary infertility after having successful pregnancies.

I have only had miscarriages...mine were caused by uterine fibroids in my uterus...do you know the cause of yours?

I would wait 6 weeks before having sex unprotected, because, as I'm sure you remember from your last miscarriages, if you have a pregnancy on the heels of a miscarriage, the odds are more in favor of another miscarriage because all of that old lining needs time (usually 2 cycles after the m/c) to fully shed, and this is ESPECIALLY true if you didn't have a D&C after your miscarriage.

My heart breaks for you, I know how that is.

Talk to your gyn, and go from there...it may be nothing, or it may be something...you just won't know 'til you go.

I'm sorry, that is probably what you don't want to hear...but that is my best, most truthful advice.

Kristi

Answer 5

I had a freind with similar problem and she was in hospital losing her baby again she was seen by a different gyneocologist (sorry if spelt wrong) he said all she needed was a stitch to prevent this. It worked and she carried fine. I would seek a second opinion.

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Answer 7

i recently had a miscarriage and can understand what it is like i also feel the need to be pregnant again, maybe your body just needs time to heal properly

Answer 8

This may be due to correctable problems.You have to consult a gyn doctor.