My mom found out last night that I am pregnant I am 16 she has known for 2 months I feel really wierd around her know I cant even look at her straight.........is there anyway for me to stop this and will it go away?
2006-06-19 07:13:06 · 17 answers · asked by imhisbabiicake 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
16 year old's shouldn't have children. They should be getting an education so they can get a good job, so when they're at least 20, then they can take care of a child. Get an abortion. Then you won't get weird looks.
2006-06-19 07:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by in_my_mind2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't get an abortion.... please... yeah you made a choice, and your mom is having a difficult time, but that doesn't mean you should get an abortion and hope things go away. It will remain, because you made that choice, but only because you wanted the looks to stop. But, it won't stop there you will have struggles and wondering if you made the right decision.
Here is an example, say you got this abortion, when it comes time that you accept someone that you want to marry and then later you want to have a family will it be harder for you when you are pregnant and look back that you took that one life away to make it better for your mom or at least to think you did or it will make it harder because of the past.
I don't think their is any easy way to make it go away, but being a friend and help each other to make life go on... will go a long way
2006-06-19 07:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Katrina B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OFF,YOU SHOULDN'T BE PREGNANT!!!! But since the deed is done try not to fret it too much, this situation will be akward for a while probably. I mean think about it, you are your mom's baby and now she has to deal with her baby HAVING a baby and that's tough for her to deal with. She doesn't want you growing up too fast. You probably can't look at her because you feel guilty in some way, or she's making you feel like you might have been a disappointment. Give things time, make sure you cut her some slack and be understanding and your mom is sure to come around eventually,(especially once she sees her grandchild). Don't stress over it because now you have to think about what is good for that baby. Make the best of every situation, don't grow up too fast, and good luck!!!
2006-06-19 07:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by foxi_brown_eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just feeling guilty. That is normal. Give your mother a chance to accept this she might not until you are giving birth. Plus since you are 16 I'm sure she is worried she will have to play mom all over again to a baby. You were selfish and immature when you got pregnant ( I'm not saying you are a bad person I got pregnant at 17 so I know where your mind was) but you have a chance to show your mom how responsible and respectable you can be. Good luck to you.
2006-06-19 07:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Darcy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i too became preganant when I was 16 and I felt the same way...it as really hard to look at my parents especially my dad. Anyway, don't base your decision on what other people say or think this is up to you and only you at this point...it is your body. I now have a wonderful little girl who will be 10 in a few months...it hasn't always been easy but I NEVER regret having her. I wish you the best of luck!!!
2006-06-22 07:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kristy D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 07:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think communication its really important you should try to explain to your mom how you fell and be honest with her i got pregnant when i was 14 & had my baby at 15 thanks god i was able to finish high school and now i'm a nurse assistant,i did not know i was pregnant cause i'm not a regular and i didnt get any symtoms just one day i got this strong pain on my side and she took me to the hospital at the time i was 5 month pregnant it was the most horrible thing i still remember when the nurse told her that she was going to be a grandmother.now i been married for 5 years had my second child and my relationship with my mom its not good i feel like everything i have its my kids and my husband and i think it has something to do with me not being able to talk to her when this happen so my advice its to get more closer than ever to your mom wish you good luck and dont worry you be fine .
2006-06-19 07:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by KARLA R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who tells you to get an abotion is simply stupid...for starters. I was 16 when I got pregnant with my first child. I lived with my parents, and I was afraid to tell them. When I finally did, it was very awkward. However, your mom is probably more worried about you than wierded out, and, although it is very after school special-ish, talk to her, you'll probably find that she is more understanding than you thought. No matter what, having a child is your decision and yours alone, and DO NOT let anyone make the decision for you, no matter what you decide.
2006-06-19 08:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by mom of adolescents 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that your mom is a mother, too. Your mom is a wealth of information for you right now. She's been through all of the things you are about to go through. It might help you two to bond over your pregnancy if you start asking her questions. Ask her what you can expect, ask her for her advice, and ask her for her opinion on what to name the baby. It will take her a little bit of time to get used to the idea of her baby having a baby, but ultimately, she will love it, and you, unconditionally. (especially if you don't shut her out during this important time.) Good luck with everything.
2006-06-19 07:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, you might want to talk to your mom about it. Tell her how YOU feel about being pregnant. Sometimes that would help the strain in your relationship. As for stopping the pregnancy.. I wouldn't advise it, and it won't go away unless you miscarry or deliver the baby. Good luck.
2006-06-19 07:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by knifelvr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best-friend got pregnant at 16 to my parents took her in for 2 weeks because she was feeling the same way maybe stay at a friend or relatives. tell your mom about your feelings and make her understand
2006-06-19 09:42:55 · answer #11 · answered by lysa4208 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋