2006-06-19 07:12:21 · 28 answers · asked by living this life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he might not have to be gay just playing out his fantasies. It is wrong as you actually will never be able to have normal marriage again. Stop doing it as you will end up without him.. or, maybe he does not care?
Fantasies should stay fantasies, as where do you stop??? one thing leads to another.... be very careful. The value system is changing and as a lady you should be the one who puts on breaks. With all the sicknesses around such as AIDS, you playing with your life (that not even touching Religion!!).
Hope you and he come to your senses before is too late. I do hope you have no kiddies which will be able to walk on you. !!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-19 07:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Desert 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't think he is gay, I know that my husband has said something about threesomes with a man and a lady. But I just can't do this . I know alots of people do . But I just can't . I like to do different things with our love life but this is one that I just can't do . Is have a threesome with others people.
2006-06-19 14:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by buttersweetgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be. But he doesn't have to be. During these sessions does he touch or service the other guy or ask the guy to do anything for him? I've done threesomes with 2 guys and a girl and we never touched each other it was all for the girl.
2006-06-19 14:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by pjthedj247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on weather or not when you have the 3somes. Does he ingauge in homo activity. If not. I would say no. I have been in several threesomes with my women with other guys. I have never had, nor would ever want to be with another guy. But I did like to watch my women with another guy. mainly because she didn't want to be with another women.
2006-06-19 14:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by JACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying to experiment. But if he is, if might be that he is currently bored with the situation in the bedroom. Also, if the third guy is a good friend of his- i would reconsider my marriage. Obiously, then its not just about experimenting it might have something to do with his own sexuality. If you give into it, just think of how you will view your husband everytime you sleep with him thereafter.
2006-06-19 14:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by gqenoel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just curious about himsef,he could be in a fantasy format.Ask him questions,adn it might bring something out of you that you didn't know was there. The same way men likes to see two women,it does flip to the other side..
2006-06-19 14:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by cece w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if he just wants to watch, or if he wants to engage. Some men are turned on by seeing their wives or girlfriends with other men. In that case, they probably are neither bi nor gay.
2006-06-19 14:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cão Bravo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bored
2006-06-19 14:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by -elemenopi- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, or he just might be into watching you get screwed by another guy. I wish you all would have done this before you got married. The whole world is going to hell, hehe.
2006-06-19 14:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya he most definatly is bi or gay usually guys want a threesome with 2 girls! lol
2006-06-19 14:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by jesslovesblink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋