2006-06-19 07:07:59 · 18 answers · asked by Tyina Mercedes 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Guys like mystery and hate drama.
If you have been having sex, then you are probably not compatible and I would just move on and not let him back into your life.
Hope this helps!!!
Whatever you do, don't take it personally. This stuff happens till you find the right one.
2006-06-19 07:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His statement "it's not exciting anymore" is really a reflection of him - not you!
Here's the real questions:
A) What's he doing to contribute to the 'boring" nature of your relationship?
B) What is he doing to add some excitement back into the two of you?
Women take a statement like your boyfriend made and automatically believe that something is wrong with themselves. While honest self-introspection and making positive personal changes is good, it's smart to remember that it takes TWO to make a relationship, and HE needs to contribute as well.
If he truly cares about you, he'll collaborate with you to improve your relationship. If he agrees to work to improve the relationship, be aware to see if what he SAYS matches what he actually DOES.
If his words don't match his actions, or if he flat-out says a relationship shouldn't require "work" he is really saying he wants out. In that case, move on and save yourself for someone who truly respects and values you.
2006-06-19 07:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by tenacity2go 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else who does NOT need constant excitement, better yet try being really single and enjoy you and your family.
2006-06-19 07:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Roses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sponateously pick him up and take him to a theme park. On the drive back, ummm, how do I say this, play "games"
2006-06-19 07:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex wit him and that'll make it exciting! tee hee
he won't be able to say anything anymore! lol
i think u should just let him go though
he sounds like he has issues
follow your heart
good luck
have a nice day! : )
2006-06-19 07:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by lil_bit_a_evrythang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reading cosmopolitan. Lots of great tips in there.
2006-06-19 07:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by the nice one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every aquaintance is a romance. Look elsewhere for love. Perhaps you can still be friends.
2006-06-19 08:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's just interested in that first date excitment then he's a jerk and you should not give him a second thought.
2006-06-19 07:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by kerstirae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you. Move on. The fire's out.
2006-06-19 07:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be a prude and od more than hook up. that might keep him around longer
2006-06-19 07:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by jack_daniels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋