i mean how long sgould you go out with them before its ok
2006-06-19 06:55:14 · 18 answers · asked by lovehatesugar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
only you know the answer to that....
but i would say be careful because there are guys who will drop you and talk about you real fast as soon as you do. that is all they are after.
My instinct would be to be friends and let things happen in their own time... in other words stop thinking along those lines altogether babe... you will be glad you did in the long run!
:-)
good luck!
2006-06-19 21:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by goodbye and good luck :-) 1 · 4⤊ 2⤋
When both feel right... Also you dont have to go all the way or actually have sex to have fun... Lots of fun with hands, fingers and mouths which should occur before full sex... But must be done safely.
ANY way any semin gets on or on or vary near the girls bits can get her pregnant (it swims remember) and that includes hitching a ride on fingers even if the guy dont come as pre *** lubricates.
Ie GET ON THE PILL OR PATCH/INJECTION FIRST AND USE CONDOMS AT THE SAME TIME.
Plus practice with condoms first ie hand jobs and using flavoured ones all the way... Good parctice for when you do do it.
You get more comfortable with each other and should be fun... If it aint then you aint ready to go further.
In some cases it may be first night, in others many months.
Also depends on how old you are.
But forget about marriages and other expensive parties for sex and women hating invisible beings and all that nonsense look at the divorce rate.
So the answer is really up to you...
When you can 't resist doing it with him and can't wait to lick him all over and I mean ALL over and see him and you want him to check out you naked and see your bits and feel them etc... and all that does not sound nasty but is turning you on at the thought of doing it with him...
Thats when
2006-06-19 14:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very individual thing. If he's mature enough and knows being intimate with him doesn't make you a ****( a word only used to discredit women). Then do what feels right. However some men are brought up with the double standard that only man can have sexually Independence. Obviously some women to since your asking the question
2006-06-19 14:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Farrah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just sleep with a guy when you feel ready to. If he can't respect you with the decision to wait until you're ready, then you may need to find someone else who will respect you. A lot of people don't wait very long, but if you're feeling like you're ready to share something like this with him, by all means, do what YOU feel in YOUR heart. Hope everything works out with you!
2006-06-19 14:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kerra L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good two hours of sex is fine for the first time but the second is even better and should last even longer. But seriously you should only do it when you feel comfortable and relaxed and not pressured.
2006-06-19 13:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Gar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you want. And remember you're in control. Nothing is going to happen until you're ready. Let him know that he has to put you in the right mood for it. If he can show you he's worth it go for it.
2006-06-19 14:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by -Uriah- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you personally believe there is enough communication and intimacy between you two to take it to another level, you should know alot about each other that shows exactly how well or not so well you communicate with each other. Also if he is impatient about things, it shows exactly what he wants from you!!
2006-06-19 14:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by xxmiss_caramel_queenxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the guy & how he treats u, does he treat u like a doormat or does he worship the ground that you walk on, if it is the first answer kick him out, if it is the second beware but he could b the rite one only you will know the rite time is rite xx
2006-06-19 14:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband wants to be the first, and you won't know who he is until after the wedding. If it's too late for him to be first, he would still rather you wait for him, after you realized that it would be important to him. Whoever you choose to be your spouse will be the most important person in your life. That person deserves your best, your patience, and your most intimate moments.
2006-06-19 14:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by Calvin James Hammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. If you have a real connection, why wait?
Always use protection!
2006-06-19 15:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋