Is there such a thing as a soul mate?

Question

This question has been asked many times, so I browsed some of the answers. I guess my conclusion is that there is "not a divine choice", but then the question came to mind: What could someone do to become another person's soul mate? If an "ideal match" does not exist, could we learn to live to a higher ideal without sacrificing our individuality and personality?

I was expecting a few more answers. I am sceptical of the "soul mate" idea. But I think it's possible to make realtionships better, and perhaps even ideal. But I have often found "perfect couples" to be unrealistic in their expectations. I wonder if both individuals would say they have the "perfect relationship", and if so, what would test it.

I think what makes a successful relationship is self sacrifice. Could someone have the perfect relationship if only one were willing to sacrifice, or would it take both?

Answer 1

My opinion only :)

I do believe in soul mates.
My wife and I almost never argue or fight. We have differences of opinions, but no fighting.

I love her so much i could cry. ((which is rare))
I have found mine!

Answer 2

IMO there is no such thing as a soul mate in this life but i do believe we meet r soulmates in heaven.

However in this life i do believe in kindred spirit person which is diff from soul mates. kindreds r someone u feel an atachment to wheather it be friends or relationship wise and it is an unspoken bond u just feel u have to be with that person.

soulmate is almost like a twin except personality wise instead.

Answer 3

i think there is such a thing! well 4 example me and my girlfriend!
ive never had a steady relationship with any other girl till 2 years ago when i met my girlfriend. it totally creeps me out when we compare our likes and dislikes even our families are more or less the same! i never used to believe in this **** but nw that ive experienced it it takes my beliefs to a whole new level!!!