I know this may sound really vain and cocky but I am not like that at all. People say I am so beautiful and gorgeous and I am so nice and sweet but I am very LONELY. When I am with someone, they get nervous and shy around me. I supposedly intimidate them. What should I do?
I also want to add that I posted this question in the single&dating section but people thought I was vain and stuck-up, I am not like that so I need real answers.
2006-06-19 06:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Women are afraid and envious of beautiful women, they do not like competition (for the most part). Some women can be beautiful and flexible and humble about it but others are not.
Men? men are afraid of beautiful women they think "high maintenance" and are afraid the woman will actually knock them down or will make them look like ants. However some men really get a rush from being with a beuatiful woman, I think most men want a beautiful woman for some time but then problems arise. They need to feel in power and control and a beautiful woman sort of makes those type of men feel insecure.
Having said that, I know what you mean about lonely, ppl do get nervous and shy but its not all people maybe you are in the wrong crowd and hanging with the wrong people.
JUST WATCH OUT FOR a particular type of men who love to go after beautiful women and catch them (in their thinking ANOTHER CONQUEST).
oN THE VAIN and stuck up attitude ppl think you have, maybe you need to revise yor profile online. I DONT RECOMMEND YOU TO GO ONLINE FOR DATING LOTS OF PROBLEMS THERE.
People abuse beautiful women! They can lie through their teeth and promise what they will never deliver. I know. I had a n ex fiancee that was a Captain in a Swedish military and gorgeous, but he was so cocky and a liar and all he wanted was his piece and after years of not realizing thats what it was and that he had been lieing (even having a daughter and another girlfriend) it finally dawned on me , with crude reality, that the man was a pig! GORGEOUS ON THE OUTSIDE , PIG AND THEN SOME ON THE INSIDE. Im glad he is in Sweden and not here.
However thats everywhre.
I finally found a man whose head is on its right place and whose love for me is true and will stick weith me no matter what. And I suffer from a terminal illness since birth. So it shows you that there are3 men who still have some values left and who can make you feel better and not lonely.
Beautiful people sometimes have the curse of the lonesomeness!
2006-06-19 06:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by noteparece? 4 · 11⤊ 0⤋
You ask a serious question so let me try to give you a serious answer from a mans perspective. The last thing I would tell you to do is mask your beauty. I would guess some may say that to you. I am sorry that you are lonely, but only you can do something about that. Take up a hobby, volunteer, become a mentor, get involved in other activitites that bring you into contact with people. Also, remember it's not against the law for a woman to ask a man out or approach a man in the club. I think that you will find the more you get out and interact with people that one, you won't be as lonely and two you might find that people find you less intimidating. Good luck.
2006-06-19 06:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the question shouldn't be "Why am I so beautiful?" That does make you sound stuck up. I think your question really is how can you make people feel comfortable around you though many people find you attractive.
If you don't get many responses, try rewording it that way.
One thing I have found is that more than anything else people like to talk about themselves. Ask people about them and what is going on in their lives. Put the focus on them and see if that helps.
Best wishes to you.
2006-06-19 06:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by SuzieQ92 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough one. well maybe next time your out with someone, get them to pick where to go, so that they feel more comfortable. if they start acting nervous, then joke around or talk about something you know they are really interested in. just keep them too occupied to worry about what you think. if at first you dont succeed, try and try again, cuz your patience and persistence will pay off. as long as you both are relaxed and at ease, there shouldnt be any problems. i hope this helps good luck!
2006-06-19 06:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by twilighteyes069 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They think you are so cool and beautiful and are afraid to say the wrong thing to you because they want you to like them and some girls might want to be you because you are so pretty. But just be yourself, if you arent shy around them they will get comfortable with you and then they will act like themselves. Just be yourself :)
2006-06-19 06:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're beautiful cus your mom took your face and rolled it in dough and made beautiful gorilla cookies. If you shave off your moustache and that unibrow you will be even more beautiful thus rendering all of us blinded by your beauty and then you wont be upset when no one gets nervous around you cus we cant see you (yay!)
2006-06-19 06:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by ^_§|èëp¡ñg_^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because everyone else around you is blind. I've seen a better face on a manatee.
2006-06-19 06:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by IRox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you find someone just as intimidating as you you'll find the right guy.
2006-06-19 06:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who is just as gorgeous as you. (then again, they may not think that they are THAT gorgeous).
2006-06-19 06:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋