OK ladies what would you think if your husband wanted to make some movies for your eyes only as a couple? Just for fun never to be seen by anyone other than you two.
Guys have you ever talked your wife into this? If so what worked for you?
2006-06-19 06:33:11 · 21 answers · asked by pjthedj247 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have to say that my husband has ask me to do this. At first I throught , Oh I could not do this. But then I throught well it mite would be fun doing something like this . I mean it would be different.
Have not done this yet but really thinking about doing it.
2006-06-19 07:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
Have you talked to talked to her about this? I think that sounds like a fun idea for the two of you. As long as as it really is "for your eyes only". If you are afraid she might say no...try telling her this is food for thought only! Give her a few days before broaching the subject again. I would suggest making a little trip to Victoria Secret and buying her a gorgeous, sexy outfit too (something that she would actually wear). So when you decide to broach the subject again, you give it to her as a present! It will kind of solidify the idea that this is meant to be a romantic and fun time for the two of you...not just a sleazy video! Good Luck!
2006-06-19 13:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that's a problem on so many levels. I don't think it's a good idea for anyone to make a sex tape, because relationship end and usually very badly. Why would you want to leave that in the hands of someone that now hates you and wants to hurt you?
Anytime you make that decision your taking a chance that the whole world or at least someone you don't want to see the tape will see the tape.
2006-06-19 14:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by Fed Up! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True story: At the University of Minnesota a tape of a women's gymnastics meet was sent around to the team members so they could watch - and critique - their routines. Unfortunately, the meet was taped over a sex tape the coach and her husband (and assistant coach) had made. When the meet footage ended the bedroom footage began. It really made the rounds on campus and both were fired as a result.
2006-06-19 14:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by FatElvis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warning, if such a movie is made, make sure that you have the only copy in your possession. These things can get on the internet or distributed for sale. I've done it, but have kept the only copy - that was the condition and it should be a conditional thing. If necessary draw up an agreement.
2006-06-19 13:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have video taped my wife and I on a couple of occasions.
The two of you need to talk about it in advance and you need to reassure her that it is for your eyes only! My wife doesn't care to see them but she knows that I enjoy it. This didn't happen over night though. You need to be positive and explain to her exactly what you want and why you them. If you love each other and trust each other, she will agree to this but she may have certain conditions. Be respectful of this and compromise with each other.
Good luck!
2006-06-19 14:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have film or a tape? It's the act of filming that excites. Just set up a dummy and pretend it's a camera. No worries about junior popping the wrong disk into the DVD.
2006-06-19 13:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally not a prude and would probably like doing it, but I would NEVER do it! You both may have the best of intentions to make them "for your eyes only", but you never know what will happen and who will possibly see those tapes.
2006-06-19 13:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, we don't even look at them, lol. It's fun to play, I don't believe in watching porno, make your own. You don't have to film it all the time, role play is a great way to spice it up. Find a sitter, go to a hotel and make your marriage spicy
2006-06-19 13:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by thisisme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be fun to do that but I know that my husband would never ask me that!
2006-06-19 13:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by crazybutterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋