She's awesome, shes just like me, we have a lot in common, we like each other, she has no emotional attatchment to my boyfriend and has never wanted him back. She is the one who broke it off. Can we be friends?
2006-06-19 06:02:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well- he has neglected to tell me about the abortion. She told me. She is already a friend on my myspace so that should give him a clue, but he still hasn't come clean. He swears theres nothing that he isn't telling me, but a I think an abortion is a big deal.
2006-06-19 06:09:21 · update #1
I'm also friends with the girl he cheated on me with ( we are friends now- she didnt know about me when he was cheating with her) and I'm friends with my ex (which he hates),
2006-06-19 06:10:01 · update #2
PS dont judge him by the cheating- he has grown up a LOT. People can change if they want to make the change.
2006-06-19 06:10:53 · update #3
And he doesn't know about our friendship yet- I'm debating on asking her to dinner to night and to hang out
2006-06-19 06:12:16 · update #4
Absolutely! There really aren't any rules about this sort of thing, because all people are different. If there are no issues between any of you, why make any? You want to make sure that it doesn't make your boyfriend uncomfortable, but if your friendship with his ex is kosher with him, it sounds like you're all caring responsible people - exactly the kind of people who deserve each other as friends!
2006-06-19 06:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by kiddprincess 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
your only asking for trouble dear. looks to me like you don't really want to be with him either, because your trying to find ways that will become a problem, i don't think you trust him if you can do this to him and not talk about it. try it this way' what if the shoe was on the other foot? would you like him to have friends that you once had a relationship with? if you two truely wanted to be together' then let go of the past, move on, and stop playing games.
2006-06-19 13:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course-although your boyfriend might feel a little weird about
it for a while.
2006-06-19 13:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you can be friends with her as long as you don't get jealous of the time they spent together and the things they did, i try to be friends with all my ex's new girl friends.
2006-06-19 13:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by truckinglove22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible! I myself think its strange to want to be buddy with an ex...
2006-06-19 13:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can. I am friends with my ex husband's wife!!
2006-06-19 13:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can. Just check that it's alright with your bf in case he has any unresolved issues with her
2006-06-19 13:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by cute_but_dangerous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah, there is nothing wrong with it, u shouldn't let your boyfriend hide you from your friends
2006-06-19 13:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋