help me what should i do and why???

Question

ok a really good friend off mine is beautifull i really like her in both ways as a friend and maybe a girlfriend she has been flirtin with me a lot lately so do i take a risk and ask her out or leave things be plz help wat should i do and why

Answer 1

Ask her out. If you don't you'll regret not doing it later in life.

Answer 2

I can tell how much you like her just from what you have written.
Are you 100% certain she has been flirting with you because you don't want to ruin a great friendship?
But it sounds v positive to me and probably worth the risk for you to ask her out.
I would suggest you starting off being casual and saying to her:
"I fancy a female friend of mine and want to ask her out but i would really like to know how she feels about me?" Then just look her straight in the eyes! If she has been flirting she will get the hint and prob say back to you "why don't you ask her out then?"
That way you can say to her "Ok so how about having a meal with me this weekend?"
Its almost foolproof cos if she doesn't take the hint you can pretend its some other girl and that might make this friend of yours jealous enough to ask you out herself!!!
Good luck!

Answer 3

Is she flirting with you or are you flirting with her? If you have NOT been flirting, and she has been making the running, then go to it - get some serious flirting of your own done. If she feels the same way it is likely that the flirting will go rather too well. If she goes cold, question answered.

Oh yeah, and remember fortune favours the brave. If you decide to come out with it, then just come out with it, straight and cool. Look her in the eye. "you know I really like you, don't you?"

Good luck!

Answer 4

The worst answer she can give you is "no." That's the worst answer to pretty much any question you can ask (try it on your boss..."Hey, can I have a raise?" "No!") See? But if you don't ask you never know which is far worse. If she's truly a friend, and as long as you're not the psycho-stalker type, if she says no to this, then she will still be your friend. Go for it!

Answer 5

Be delicate and tactful but ask her out now. You can turn the conversation into love life and ask her if she fancies someone or is ready to date someone and what kind of chap she looks for.

But ask her now, because when she meets someone else she wont have much of a chance of seeing you if at all; the friendship will wear off anyway. So losing her because of someone else or saving her for yourself or losing her anyway... go for her

Answer 6

I say go ahead and ask her out. Be sure of your feelings and take the risk. Dont worry about it messing up your friendship b cuz if she is truly your friend and she says no then she will still be your friend.

Answer 7

Start going out with her as a friend, maybe have a few drinks and relax, start turning the conversation in the direction of you and her, see how she reacts! Good Luck

Answer 8

Well, you're already friends right? So if you go someplace together it doesn't have to "sound" like you are asking her for a date. Just go do something together and see what happens. Be brave

Answer 9

me and my mate ashley were exactly the same but non of us new wat to do about it before we knew it someone else got in there i always wonder what if which is never a good thing if you ask her out at least then you can say you tried and will never be left wonderin what if

Answer 10

Ask her out!!!!!!! What have you got to lose. The best relationships often start with friendship. Good luck.

Answer 11

ask her other wise you will ot know what might be as you may be a perfect match and you may get married or stay together for a long time