Ask your Mom honey, not a bunch of strangers on the internet.
2006-06-19 05:57:57
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answered by kja63 7
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I know just how you feel. Before my first kiss, I was completely freaked out because I didn't have a clue what to do. And all the "how to kiss" articles in the teen magazines never gave any specific examples of what to actually do. I would say just be sure and wait till are you are totally comfortable and ready (but remember that the butterflies won't completely go away) and just make sure your boyfriend knows that you want to, but you're nervous, and ask him to go slow.
That being said, I'll try my hand at a couple tips. Like someone else said, it's basically like exploring the other person's mouth. Start with normal kisses, gradually open your mouth as you go (not like you're yelling or anything, but just like you're breathing with your mouth open), and just put your tongue in his mouth (do it relatively gently tho) and just kinda run your tongue in circles around his tongue. Once you do it a few times, you'll just kinda pick it up.
And also, if you're serious about not having sex before marriage (which I think is great) be sure and set well-defined rules and boundaries because once you start making out, it's incredibly easy to want to go father and you probably won't think of anything but that. Don't trust that you'll know what's too far when you get to it, because it definitely doesn't work that way. Some rules you might wanna try are limiting where hands and kisses are allowed, not being alone for prolonged periods of time, always keeping the door open, etc.
Believe me, I know it's scary as crap, but it really is not that big of a deal, I promise.
2006-06-19 13:04:13
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answered by Dick 2
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go to France, get a person, and kiss them....French kiss
2006-06-19 14:35:09
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answered by Anonymous
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Experience... you must be underage to be asking... so go ask your mommy or daddy instead of asking all the morons in the world...
2006-06-19 12:58:03
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answered by need to know basis 3
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