A bloke i know came on to me the other day. He is 22 and i would say hes good looking but i am not that way. I like this girl. i told him no and i will see him tommorrow. What shall i say or do?
2006-06-19 05:51:27 · 9 answers · asked by jamseyb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nothing (unless he tries it on again) just be normal with him
2006-06-19 05:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him in the same way you would treat a girl who came on to you who you were not attracted to. Tell him that you currently like someone else, and that you are not gay. Simple.
Oh, and be flattered that someone liked you enough to hit on you.
2006-06-19 13:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Alex should be working 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with what you are, with honestly.
You don't owe him anything more than you are willing to owe anyone.
We were not born to this world to live up to the expectations of others, or to satisfy needs we have no interests in.
Best wishes.
Sash.
2006-06-19 12:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act normal but if he tries to come onto you again then tell him how you feel - ask him if he wants to lose your friendship as that is really the ultimate result.
2006-06-21 18:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by electric/discotequer/robot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him that you are not gay tell him hes a nice bloke but your not interested in him
2006-06-19 15:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by misty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you give off gay-dar readings... Are you sure you aren't just that little bit interested??? ;)
Just tell him straight that you ARE!!!
2006-06-19 13:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming your a guy if so tell him your straight or have a girlfriend.
2006-06-19 13:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "no beef strictly sushi"
2006-06-19 12:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by kizzy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur interested in someone else
2006-06-19 13:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by hunniewilko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋