My dad wont let have any guy friends and im 13 and let my older brother have a girlfriend and hes 14 I always want to put his guards down and sometimes that works
2006-06-19 05:36:22 · 12 answers · asked by T_claire 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Probably because he sees guys as more threatening to a girls well being than vice versa. I can understand it. He (and I) went through the stage you are in, and we know what it was like for us at that age, and what our main goal was (probably sex with anyone and everyone possible). So because we know this, we try to protect the girl from guys that we can be pretty sure are in the exact same frame of mind as we were.
As for your older brother, we also know that he is in that frame of mind, but, just like us, will fail over and over at achieving the goal we have, so there is less worry.
2006-06-19 05:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
B ecause you can't protect yourself physically against a guy. No matter how strong you think you are , Guys are always much stronger. So your dad worries that under the wrong circumstances you could be hurt and your dad will feel horrible. It is a fathers job to protect his children even if the children don't think its fair. Your dad loves you very very much.
2006-06-19 05:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by heidinichole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad does the same thing and im 13 too i guess he just thinks of us like his little girl and i know what u mean about the brother thing to i think its cause dads remeber how they were at that age and just let there son do what ever
2006-06-19 06:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. The Dads were once teenagers so they know how much guys prey on girl. He doesn't want his little girl to go through that so he does everything to stop this from happening. As for they boys, they are boys.
2006-06-19 06:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Angel4140 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See. You never see a guy love his dad as much anymore. You see him with his Mother. Mama's Boy. Fathers have no one to look to or to care about other than their daughters like you.
2006-06-19 16:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know but i'm 13 and my bro is 17. he goes out and parties will midnight. and my mom dont' say nothing. when i tell her that if i can go to a sleepover like 3 blocks away she says no . HELL NO! and i get mad, and i never talk to her again. ok yes i do, but that's not the point.
2006-06-19 06:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad was a teenage boy once, he knows how teenage boys think, he's trying to protect you from that, I would suggest asking him about it, maybe he's unaware that he's treating the two of you so differently.
2006-06-19 05:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tulip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think their daughters are less defenssless and are more emotional and could become prenant. I am 14 and I can't date. Go figure.
Little Lamb
2006-06-19 05:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because he remembers being younger and how he behaved toward girls. He may feel he needs to protect you more that he does your brother.
2006-06-19 05:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by francesfarmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's because with a boy they only have to worrie about one penis and a girl they have a whole world a penis's to worrie about
pregnancy in young girls are too common now a days
2006-06-19 05:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by sexysusieq21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋