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Question

hi! i donnt know what to do am a RICH girl my dad always busy i never talk to him about anything never never because he is busy he need to make money ...MUM always with my older sister she dont talk to me at all she says ( you are just selly teen talking with you make me sick ) when iwana talk to her she tell me am busy but she isnt . MY older sister is the most mean girl ever....... the only guy iloved start like her but she dont love him she dont even like him she play that she like him ............. i know why is that happning to me .. my mum told me that she was so sad . when she get brignet with me..my older sister realy hated me when icame to this world she even try to hurt me when i was alittle girl.. my dad want aboy so he was so sad when he knew that am agirl ......... irealy dont know what to do with my family i try my best with them ?

Answer 1

Stop being a stupid rich girl and join the average person, we're way more fun and we'll kick your family's *** for free.

Answer 2

Find some counseling and supportive friends. Group therapy might be a good idea. Your family members are behaving very badly. I suspect some of what is going on is cultural, not that that makes it O.K. This archaic valuing of sons over daughters. You did not say what country you are from but I'll tell you what, if it were the U.S. the way you're being treated is considered abuse.

Believe me, your parent's and sister's idiocy is no reflection on your value. Unfortunately, when we are young we depend on those around us to reflect our value. You are not getting an accurate reflection due to their issues. This is damaging so I pray you get some help. I would hate to see you struggle with feelings of worthlessness for the rest of your life and that is what is at stake here. You're smart. You knew enough to look outside of the family circle for answers. I commend you. Please keep us updated. We are concerned. And remember: "You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and stars. You have a right to be here.".

Answer 3

Familys are difficult, and it sounds like you are just the yougest and hating life. Things will get better. If I were you I would call a family meeting and tell everyone how your feeling. If know one will listen then just start learnign how to enterain yoursself. Tell your parents you want to start art classes, or acting classes, keep yourself busy and surround yourself with new and interesting people. A little word of advice, don't satrt a sentance with "i'm a rich girl" that could put people of right in the beginning or become your friend for the wrong reasons. Good luck!

Answer 4

A jerry can full of petrol, a lighter and a huge inheritance might make all the pain go away.

Or you could stop being so self absorbed, thinking that the whole world is about you. You're not the only person in your family suffering. So if you could stop your moping long enough to be useful to your kinfolk rather than act the "everybody-hates-Sarah" part, things might get a lot better, a lot faster.

Answer 5

look for the good qualities, but set boundries. my dad had his moments, even though he couldnt afford it he bought me a motorcycle there are a few times like this i can look at him fondly and love him. but my dad was a alcoholic. it was a 65 to 70 percent chance that after spending an hour at the bar he would come home and if food wasnt ready he would physically take it out on us. i dont have any time for any of his lip or arguments now but when we can talk with respect for each other we love each other a lot. there is good and bad in everyone. dont sit down and let people walk over you. but let them respect and love you as a caring person you are. maybe there are times where it seems you can be mean too. i know i did some things i am not proud of but that is the nature of learning and growing. if someone can see past the bad things ive done and still love me i have a lot of respect for that and care about that person. if they can be nothing but mean i dont have any time for them i have better things to do. i hope this helps and if you have questions let me know. you can contact me through this site.

Answer 6

ok sounds like you have major disfuntion in your household but do not feel alone cause you are not the only one. your sister is a brat and definately spoiled unfortunately you have to suffer because your parents are not giving you the attention you deserve. one day when you and your parents are the only ones home demand for a talk with them and tell them exactly how you feel. your parents do love you but they aren't perfact either and if you do not communicate with them thats not fair to them either. do not talk to them in front of your sister. if they do not hear you then find a adult, someone outside of your house that you can relate to. i know it can be hard already to be a teenager in this day and age so stay positive ok. stay in school, get a job and move out when you can and never bring your boyfriends near your sister. just remember you are not alone so donot get depressed cause you will be ok just make sure there is someon e older you can talk to .

Answer 7

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Answer 8

well, if your sister its mean, does she does bad things? a rebel? moms and dads pay more attention to the kids with that trouble, if your a good girl and your sister is a bad girl then your mother will pay more attention to your sister because your mom is tryng to help her.

your sister is oviously gona try to hurt you, well not obviously but she did it because when she was the only girl in the house everybody loved her most, and you coming to world made your dad and mom pay more attention to you and let your sister behind because babys need more attention, so she was jealous.

your dad? mens sometimes are jerks,....
ok most of the times, your dad wanted a boy because if he dont get a boy his second name will disapear, your second name is your dads second name, but when you have a baby your baby will have as a second name the second name of the father and the third name will be your second name and when your baby has a baby the babys seconds name will be the second name of the father and the third name will be from the mother, and then the second name of your dad will disapear.thats the reason why mens wants boys, because of the second name, mens are proud of it. me? my dad wanted a boy just because that, but he didnt get what he wanted, he wanted a boy that wanted to have a boy, but i hate babys, so he wont get a second name from me.

your mom is trying to help your sister probably, because if shes a bad person your mom gona try to help her.

i think you should jell at them, one day try talking to your mother, if she says she busy, then you should explote. say every single word you get at your head at that momment, say how you feel, but say it screaming, if your going to be busy all the time and ignore me then why the heck did you bring my to this ****** g world? i didnt ask you to do it. stuffs like that, maybe it will make your mom reflex a little, i know its not the best advice you will get, but do you have a better one? if i were you thats what i would do, because im the rebel that dosnt respect adults.

it took me 10 minutes to write this and note because im slow typing, its because it took me a little of time to get the best words one by one.

best of lucks: jose

Answer 9

im sorry girl. if you don't feel loved and liked by your family, then you need to tell them straight out. i know this probably hurts you but you need to tell them you don't feel wanted or accepted by them. tell them how much this hurts you. if things don't change then maybe you can stay with another family member that you know loves and adores you and will give you the attention that you need. (As long as they are mature, an adult, and they are trustworthy, with good values and morals) but ask your parents if this would be okay first! dont do anything that is going to cause alot of problems.. im sure they love you, they just need to slow down and give you some quality time. alot of families get like that.

Answer 10

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Answer 11

hun just find others that u have things in common with and only deal with ur family when u have 2.once your old enough move out n then u can do what u want.some familys lose sight of the things that should be most important 2 them their children n when that happens it is sad but its there lose not urs.keep ur head up hun not everyone is like them.