It seems that I am very judgemental of everyone and it's starting to bother me.
2006-06-19 05:15:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
look at yourself and notice that you have flaws also
2006-06-19 05:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you see someone and start to open your mouth,stop and think,Would you want someone to be judging you the same way? It seem you have problems with people around you and really the problem is you. Depending what kind of life you live and what is your background, you may feel you are better than everyone else. Which is wrong. STOP AND THINK IF YOU KNOW SOME ONE WAS DOING THE SAME TO YOU. Remember we all have faults and some people have more than others and we should by all means try not to judge.
2006-06-19 05:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize the awesomeness of forgiveness and unconditional love / acceptance. Realize that we all fall short in some areas and everyone is just trying to make it through. When you have true joy and self love then you can live life without judgement. With maturity and watching your tongue you will begin to turn your judgements into compliments. Either that or consider a career in the justice system.
2006-06-19 05:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking that you are better than anyone else. If it is bothering you, then that is a good thing. If you are quick on the trigger with your mouth, practice listening more than you speak. Althou Jesus tells us not to judge lest we be judged using the same measure, it is hard not to offer your opinion. refreain from doing so---no body really cares what you think. I know. I am a preacher and preachers are the most ignored people on earth, which is why the world is headed for hell in a handbasket. Be concerned about your own sins rather than the sins of others. Taking care of your own faults is a full time job. When you try to correct the proiblems of others you are working on overtime without pay. As a minister, that is my job. If you want to be in my position, then get right withDod, study the Bible thoroughly, love Jesus and commit yourself to him, and get ordained. The people that are flawed but think that they are flawless will flock to your doorstep and present themselves for judgements that they do not want to here. Jesus loves you.
2006-06-19 06:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Preacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the church and take a vacation. See the world. Forget about yourself. Look at life from everybody else's perspective. What is fair for you is fair for me. What is fair for the goose is fair for the gander. What is this person really saying? Are they telling the truth? Are they confused, ignorant, naive. . .wait a minute. What am I saying? There is no way to stop being judgmental even when trying not to be judgmental for altruistic reasons. Perhaps Homo Sapiens SHOULD be judgmental and there is NOTHING wrong with it whatsoever.
2006-06-25 05:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well number 1 you wouldn't be human if your weren't judgmental but some people are just assholes about it you know. But i think alot of what we are exposed to is very judgmental every day **** on TV and what people have to say about one another, and how we look at are selves. I don't think they make a pill for being too judgmental but i could tell yeah that if it bothers you to look at someone and you cant help but say something to your self. Then "if you don't have anything nice to say to the person then don't say anything at all" make it a habit by not saying anything, you can make any thing a habit Form chewing your nails from "please" and "thank you" But if that doesn't work then you may have a case of Asshole Syndrome Don't worry its not contagious Its just that every one will avoid you and you fix this but shutting your ******* mouth
2006-06-19 06:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to understand other people's motives for doing things. Ignoring small, insignificant things that bother you, like someone slightly mispronouncing a word, the way their hair is always messy (or something else trivial like that) can really help too. If it is voicing your judgment that is bothering you, try not only to stop saying it aloud, but also try to eliminate it in your thoughts. If you can stop it from being a habit while thinking, it should be easier to keep it from your actual conversation.
2006-06-19 05:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by sparkly_chrimsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ones perfect. And by judgemental do you mean like you say stuff or you just think it.. because if you say it you could just bite your lip n think bad stuff about people.
2006-06-19 05:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start reading books on human development and self improvement techniques. One good thing is that you have realized your problem. You just need to improve yourself based on that. Good luck!
2006-06-19 05:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by viv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your 16 years old, ur not going to stop, its not bad to judge people it gives you a basic understanding of what that person could or would be like.
2006-06-19 06:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by postalsock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try walking a mile in the other person's shoes.
I tried that in my wife's high heels once and durn near killed myself.
2006-06-19 05:17:34 · answer #11 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋