Advice quick!! I don't know if i'm right!?

Question

Ok, the social situation at my school is pretty weird, each class is divided into about 5 different groups. Last year was my first year at the school and fit in perfectly with one of the groups because they were really nice, but this year, I made friends with people outside the group and started hanging out with them sometimes. I dont think my first group liked that and today they organized a trip to the movies which they told me about before hand, but went without me. What should I do...I'm really furious with them, but at the same time I dont want to loose such great friends...

Answer 1

Can you ask why you were treated that way? I don't really understand this type of school policy...is this in the U.S.?

Answer 2

Look...talk to them in the face, tell them that it really pissed u off, probably they will tell u :we thought u would prefer hangin out with the other guys -whateva- ...( u know, sth that sounds annoying)
Thats when u have to make it clear that u really like them and that they mean alot to u...and that , u do like the other group, but that doesnt mean that u dont care for them..

Ummm...i wanna add sth...its cool to have good friends and everything , but that doesnt mean that they should be the ONLY friends u have..i mean if u hang out with other ppl , it shouldnt annoy them , UNLESS u stopped hangin with them or u hang with the others more...U have to , u know , clarify stuff, who are ur best friends , and who are just friends and dont choose a 'just friend' over a best friend ...

The thing is...talk to ur older friends...clear things up...find out whats wrong...and try ur best to compromise....There is nth worse than loosing a good friend....you'll regret it..

Good Luck ;)

Answer 3

You should step up and say (gently) you don't appreciate being treated like that and how would they feel? That isn't fail on you at all and you should totally stick up for your rights. If they really are great friends, do this but you know, when people are like that to you all the time, ties are severed and friendships drift, y'know?

Answer 4

If they were great friends you would not be treated this way~because you made friends out side of that group~if you allow for them to treat you this way, they will always do it, and you will be there stepping stone instead of a friend!!! Good Luck :)

Answer 5

Talk to them about it. They may not have done it on purpose. It may have just slipped their mind to wait for you. I've had that done to me just a few days ago. It wasn't intentional and the guilty party tripped over themselves apologizing. Ask them why they left you before doing anything rash.

Answer 6

listen buddy....this thing usually happens wit most of us...
well its no harm making new friend but always remember NEW FRIENDS ARE MADE BUT NOT BY LOOSING OUT ON THE OLD ONES...
if u share a good rapport wit ur old group then ask them wat went wrong...make every one sit n talk to them calmly...if they are against u then try xplaning them wat u feel....
ALWAYS REMEMBER THERE IS NO ONE N CAN NEVER BE>>A FRIEND LIKE UR MOM HOW PROTECTS N PAMPER N SHARE UR HAPPINESS N SORROW VN U NEED BUT PUTS NO RESTRICTION ON U WEN U WANNA FLY IN OPEN SKY...
rest all will hav issues only bcoz ITS DIFFICULT TO SHARE UR BEST BUDDY
tc

Answer 7

Talk to them and tell them how you feel,they will either accept your reason or not.If they do great for all of you,if they don't ditch them,their not real friends.

Answer 8

I think tht if ve sum feelings atleast little u shudnt leave ur old frendz plz get back to ur old frendz....jst tell me arent ur new frendz nice? arent they frendly??jst tell me ...... i think u shud....get back, u shud keep a balanca make ur oldfrendz too n new frendz old....

Answer 9

ask them why did they do it