My best friend and I have been friends since we were in the 1st grade way before my "friend" joined into the group. Everything was going fine, when my mom forced me to take a scholarship exam in school. I unexpectedly passed, so I was transfered to another section away from my best friend. So now my "friend" and my best friend are now currently hanging more with each other since they're classmates. I dont get much chance to talk with my best friend so often now due to my studies.
And when I do get the chance, my "friend" always comes along and tries to desperately butt in, scared half to death that I might take my original "best friend" away from her.How in the world that thought got in, she has quite a temper, I usually would spend a lot of time thinking of ways of helping my best friends to make peace with her everytime she gets mad at them with no acceptable or good reason at all!
She may seem like a nice and pretty girl...but once you get to know her, another story...
2006-06-19 04:40:18 · 12 answers · asked by Snowflake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know the type. You gotta step up and take control......give her a slap.
2006-06-19 04:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by jewel_o_th_night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the relationship triangle. Two's company, three's a crowd.
It is common when attending school that your best friend is the person who sits next to you, or lives closest to you, etc. it is physical proximity. As you grow older and mature, you choose friends differently based on things of common interest.
Welcome to the world of grown ups. It appears that you are transitioning into young adulthood ahead of your friends. Since you are advanced academically, you may be more mature socially.
While I would continue to pursue the relationship with your best friend, including asking to do things just the "two of you", I'd also begin focusing on making new friends in your new academic area. Whatever you do, do not say ANYTHING negative to either of these friends about the other; you will regret it.
Make new friends
Keep the old
One is silver
The other gold.
2006-06-19 04:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by pamspraises 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she leaves, she may be ordered again good back. She does not have the prerogative to head 3 hours away except the court docket believes it truly is interior the main suitable pastime of the youngster. i've got faith it truly is not to take them 3 hours from their dad. she will constantly flow away the youngsters with their dad and flow besides if it truly is that significant to her. some thing tells me you are the boyfriend interior the recent city. in case you're, your plan did no longer artwork.
2016-10-31 03:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR... chill out ...
is this best friend of urs a guy...
if so then ur r in LOVE honey....
congratulations!!!!!
but if not den get one thing clear...u cant force anyone to select or not to select someone as der frnd...dear at d end u said something really harsh@ur other frnd as in quite a different story n all... get one thing clear, no one is perfect n no one has d right to JUDGE anyone coz v our-self ain't dat all GOOD... so for dat u shud say sorry to GOD...
remember one thing...if u hav seen DIL CHAHTA HAI..u must know dis...
IF U LIKE SOME ONE AS UR FRND OR LOVE,LET IT LOOSE COZ D HARDER U TRY HOLDING SAND IN UR HAND D MOR IT SLIPS AWAY...
n if this person so called best friend of urs considers u too as his/hers best frnd den i don't think he/she can evr forget good times u had together..
so u need not b threatened or sad..
talk to ur best frnd calmly about how u feel n don't tell anything about this new friend to ur best frnd coz this will screw things up...
tc
2006-06-19 05:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Bunty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this question is close to my heart .believe me i have been through this .i had a best friend but other friend of mine has taken her away.the only thing i realized after wards was that,that i wish i had given her more time.show your feelings to her .tell her how much you need her.try to contect her every single day.treat her special.try to tell her all that is happening in your life and most importantly stay connected with her.and whnever you have a fight remind her of the good times you two spent together.
2006-06-19 04:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing to do is for you to just let your best friend know what you know about her, i mean the inner person you know and not the outer person you best friend is seeing.
But if your best friend don't wanna listen then let it be, okey and it would be better if you go and look for a new friend .
2006-06-19 04:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Oshoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are telling she is ur best friend.If she is ur best friend just sit and talk with her wether she is going to leave u and go behind the other friend of u.Actually ur very possessive , she might me just going with her cos they are in the same section, but she likes u more than the other person.If she is ur best friend ahe can never leave u and go.Trust me the only way for the solution is to sit and talk with ur best friend.All the best
2006-06-19 04:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by Padma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best friend that you want to hang with her.....and only her, if she brings the friend, then you know something is wrong. set up things where you and your best friend can do stuff, for only two people, Then try to tlak to her
2006-06-19 04:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Kjo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is ur "best friend" then no worries.times&people change.be honest with them both,tell them how you feel about situation is all you can do,hope your all pals in the end together.sean
2006-06-19 05:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by seanwater01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama, just get a new friend
2006-06-19 04:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋