I just got married the 16th and my man has changed. I love the change but will it last or is he just in shock? Before we got married he was being a real asshole and now he is the sweetest he ever been. Was it just a test to see if I'd leave him or what?
2006-06-19 04:25:12 · 17 answers · asked by Jenny 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he's been an *** since like 8 months before the wedding ..lol
2006-06-19 04:29:47 · update #1
It is always hard to say what a person is thinking and why. It may have been that he was testing you before, it also may have been that he was really nervous. It also could be that once he became married to you his beliefs in terms of how a husband should be kicked in. Marriage is a big deal and can change people for the good or bad. Be happy in your case it is for the good and let him know how happy he has made you with this change in attitude.
2006-06-19 04:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy this while it lasts and accept it. This change is a good thing. Treasure it while it lasts and i hope he stays the same way. If be goes back to being mean and a jerk then seek counseling and help. Count your blessings is all i am saying and dont question it. Tell him you are happy that he is better and that you love him for it!
2006-06-19 12:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it was nerves over the wedding and the whole marriage thing but now that its done he can relax and be himself. however if this is how he manages stress that isn't good because life is going to have lots of that, its one of the few guarantees there are. talk to him about it and see what he says, keep your eyes open and if things are sincerely better then be happy.
2006-06-19 11:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was probably the stress of getting the wedding planned and paying all the costs. He can probably relax now.
2006-06-19 11:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was being a *** before, then why did you marry him?
2006-06-19 11:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre-wedding jitters.
2006-06-19 11:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im glad hes sweet now but why did you marry him in the first place, he was an ****** right? I hope he doesnt turn on you.
2006-06-19 11:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he'll go back to his old self .... don't think for a second that a person can change a person
2006-06-19 11:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by I'm a brain in a Jar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you marry an asshole anyway?
2006-06-19 12:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by bay area curious george 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not enough background information to really answer this question. So many factors could be involved.
2006-06-19 12:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by b-in-oc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋