I would like to know what people really think of me?

Question

This is a serious question-please could you go to' www.myspace.com/helenlouise20 and tell me what you think of me. Im not insecure or looking for compliments by the way, im just curious!!

thanks ;)

xx

Answer 1

Dear Helen,

I read your many personal questions and the problems and hard times you faced from your father. I think that you have been hurt and have suffered.

Honestly, I don't see how anybody can honestly tell you what they think about you based on pictures and website information. It would be unfair of me to judge you just by looking at you or reading a few pictures.

It seems that you have some difficult situations to deal with such as your ex boyfriend and your father. Maybe you shouldn't care what I think about you as I am nobody and just a stranger.

Perhaps you should not concern yourself with what complete strangers think about what you look like either or what people think about you that you don't know.

I have had difficulties in my past and can understand how it may feel to be abused by a person. This leaves us empty and with bad memories. It is terrible. I also have friends who have been through things like those that you described and actually worse.

But you must have self respect and never seek the attention of other people in a manner where you leave yourself open to be taken advantage of or insulted. Your best friend must be you. You must overcome the hurt and pain that was caused to you by your father. It was not your fault. And even if you blame yourself, it was not you who did anything wrong.

We feel empty and lost when our parents or others abuse us when we are young and we lookk outside of ourselves for accepatence. But this will never satisfy the empty hole inside. You must know yourself and make yourself strong in this world. And tod othis you need to love yourself first and respect yourself first.

There is an ancient wise saying "Know Thyself" and if you can do this you will live a better life. For serious pain and suffering then it is good to speak with others who have suffered from the same thing or a counselor or both.

I suggest reading books about these topics and writing in a journal to vent the frustration. You will never forget what happened but perhaps you can accept it an move on. Healing takes a long time and work too.

I hope that my answer helps you. Maybe you should keep these things a little bit more private and amongst friends only. It is hard to trust people and the online thing is a bit strange. Read a book called "The New Mood Therapy"

Best Wishes,

Gerb.

Answer 2

Well, you are pretty. And I think it's pretty obvious that you know this, otherwise you would not ask people to look at your site and see loads of pics of you with not that many clothes on. I'm not trying to be nasty and to be honest, if I looked like you, I would probably do the same thing. I think you know that you're pretty but I think a person is about more than looks. I can't tell you what I think about you without knowing you. I'm sure you're nice. You should be asking your friends what they think about you, though, not strangers.

Answer 3

Well ur a model so u must know that u have a very pretty face and great figure. Other than that i cant say much since i dont know u. I have to say though u look a lot like my friend Katy!!

Answer 4

You look beautiful and should be happy the way you are. Theres nothing at all wrong with you. I take a bad photograph and look terrible but have been told iM VERY GOOD LOOKING so its all about personality anyway

Answer 5

If you seek others' approval with regard to your beauty, no answer will ever satisfy you, b/c people will only assert for what they see outwardly and could never appreciate your inner beauty unless they know you
Learn to love yourself for what you are, not for the way you look like

Answer 6

I think you look pretty regular, you might look alot better if you stop with all those extravagant colors on your face, try some Pink ice Lip gloss and a little shadow that either matches your lip color or brings out your eyes color, green is not for you. and your poses look just like that (Poses)

Answer 7

First, seems a ploy to get people to visit your site and purchase some of your clothing range.

Mind, you are a well fit bird who hopefully goes like a train.

My pink soldier salutes you.

Answer 8

Not bad.. unfortunately one of those pages that looks better than mine. I will however not reveal my true identity as I feel braver asking stupid questions and giving retarded answers from behind my veil of secrecy...

Oh yes, just noticed that A. Jolie thing.. you really like that woman eh? Really really really really like her? What section is this question in?

Answer 9

You're very pretty and I absolutely LOVE the photographs of where you live towards the bottom of the page - you have a good eye.

Answer 10

ok. to be perfectly honest. your a very pretty young lady. i think you are a bit of a flirt by your poses in your profile. your outgoing and fun. i also think your a little self concouse but mostly your beautiful and you know it. you Want people to look at you.