2006-06-19 04:20:52 · 37 answers · asked by Candy Dandy Rosalina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it depends on the connection that you have with the guy. did u just meet him or have u known him for a while. a guy u just met probably just wants to sleep w/you. but from what i really think your pretty to him and he doesn't want u to think otherwise. just because your fat doesn't mean you can't be pretty and skinny to someone else (have u ever seen shallow hal). beauty is in the eye of the beholder. always remember that. he might really like u no matter how u look.
2006-06-19 04:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some years ago, some psychologists did a study. They found that the body shape that women THINK men want is actually about 20 lbs lighter than what men ACTUALLY want.
Guys like curves--women constantly call themselves "fat" when in truth, in the eyes of most men they're "just right". Contrary to what a lot of women might think, a hipsy, busty 36C-26-38 on a 5'4" frame is downright intoxicating to many men.
It sounds to me like you're being too hard on yourself...
2006-06-19 04:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by twiceborne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your relationship to this fellow is, but I love my wife no matter what. Sometimes she's thinner than others, but that doesn't matter to me. I see her as my soul mate, and she becomes more beautiful to me everyday. Beauty and looks fade away over time, but the heart and soul only strive to become better if you give them a chance. Please forget about what you see on TV or see in magazines, average people cannot afford a personal trainer to follow us around 16 hours a day to help us look "perfect" (and I use that term loosely). True and genuine beauty come from within, not from without. Besides, what is physical perfection?
2006-07-01 05:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by B'Narron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you think too lowly of yourself and really are pretty and skinny. Probably the guy likes you... And maybe he does just want to get into your pants.
You know, there's a million things it could mean.
2006-06-19 04:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by omg its me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it really pi$$es me off when people get on here to answer serious questions like yours with stupid a$$ answers.Did any body stop and think that to this guy maybe he really don't think that this lady is fat,that he does find her thin and beautiful and thinks that she doesn't feel good about her self enough to date him and he is just trying to help her self esteem enough to give him a fighting chance to make her happy bet that didn't dawn on those that give stupid a$$ answer just do be funny.If they want to be funny try amateur night at a comedy club see how many laughs you get! I bet not as many as you think because I don't find none of you heartless f#$s funny at all!
2006-06-19 04:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by apache672004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are fat, then it means he's just being a jerk-off. If you're really skinny, but just think you're fat, then he's probably being sincere. It all depends on how you view yourself.
2006-07-01 09:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by Cherry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that he really thinks that you are perfect for him. I am not fat, but I do have curves, and my husband loves every inch of my body. Take the complement and see what happens.
2006-07-02 19:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by walker_chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to get in yo jeans or he is a very nice lying gentlemen!Cause i had both ine that made you feel skinny when your not that want to get in yo jeans and one that is trying to make you feel good!But sit back and see how he acts!If he treats you different aroung his friends than when yall by yall by yall self he want to ge tin your jeans!Basically see if he is 2-faced!
2006-07-02 14:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's lying to you. That's what it means. you know u r fat, so it doesn't matter what he says. by the way if you are fat, why did you make your avatar look anorexic?
2006-06-19 04:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by tbird00719 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And are you fat?...(i think the same about myself with my 117pounds and 5'9"height...)
if you are really fat than he likes you the way you are
or he's being nice and diplomatic
2006-06-19 04:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by Inuyasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋