I have been with my bf for 4 years and i love him to death, but the spark has gone out of the relationship is there anything i can do to make the relationship interseting again?
2006-06-19 03:57:49 · 9 answers · asked by Megan M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Me and my boyfriend have "the quarter game". Each person has two or three rules that the other must follow, tho the rules are set and agreed upon first. Like if I forget where I put something he gets a quarter in his jar, And if he doesn't shave, I get a quarter in my jar. Each quarter is worth a "favor". Which can be turned in at anytime, anywhere.
2006-06-19 04:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I know what you mean, my husband and I have been together for 5 years and sometimes things get to be old hat. Do something different. Everyone says to have a nice romantic night out, but if thats something you do often then you should do something different. You can go to a strip club (of course you want men and women) if hes up for it. If not, then try to just have a day to spend with each other. Remember, something different, something new. Try to remember why you fell in love with him in the first place. And why he fell in love with you to begin with. Go out together and buy matching lingerie. Some say to watch a porn film together. Not something I would do personally but I don't know what kinds of things you do or don't do. Or go somewhere where you have to sneak around. These are just some suggestions. Just to give you an idea. You can come up with your own.
2006-06-19 04:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Wanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to comfortability...this is what life is like after marriage.
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The best answer, I've found, is Quoted (below):
"The stereotype answer is to increase the sexuality the relationship - I say just start sharing things with each other again, literaly get to know each other again, even fall in love again - by hitting the core, all other things will follow such as good sex etc. "
Good Luck!
2006-06-19 04:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 10:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY DATING HIM AGAIN! THINGS LIKE DRESSING UP NICELY FOR HIM AND GOING OUT SOMEWHERE NICE. OR MAYBE BUYING A NEW NIGHTY AND DANCING IN IT FOR HIM. OR GIVING EACHOTHER SPECIAL BODY LOTION MASSAGES!
2006-06-19 04:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by FAITH P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him play with the most unholiest of holies.
If you've already done that, hmmmmm......
Play with his.
He might like it.
2006-06-19 04:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
add another girl to the bedroom activities
2006-06-19 03:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by snowboarder 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with snowboarder's answer
2006-06-19 04:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
roleplay and with sex outfits...
2006-06-19 03:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋