whenever i try to put on a condom- i usually get soft- and i have to use a condom cuz my girlfriend isnt on the pill or anything- what can i do to stay hard?
2006-06-19 03:52:25 · 5 answers · asked by curiouslikeacat 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Most effective way is to have her do it. She has to do it lovingly as part of the lovemaking. That way, you can't get soft.
On the other hand, you need to think a little bit why you go soft during the process of wearing a condom and solve the root cause. It might have to do with an innate dislike for the condoms, in which case you need to start to find a way to like it, like trying several types till you find one you like. If you generally go soft whenever you have a few seconds of diversion from sexual activity, that is a different case and you need to seek help. Might by simple psychological or stress related problems you need to deal with, or simple things you need tochange in your lifestyle.
2006-06-19 04:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by SmartAlec 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you remember what is going to happen next! If you associate the condom with having sex, maybe you will stay excited while you put it on. Also, ask her to do it for you, maybe her touch will help.
2006-06-19 04:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by PiccChick12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Touch him while he's putting it on. Nibble on his neck or something. Don't just lay back and wait for him to get it on. Like, seriously. I've got the same problem.
2016-03-15 09:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her put it on after she's warmed it up.
2006-06-19 03:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have her put it on for you with her mouth.
2006-06-19 03:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about the warm pussyy
2006-06-19 05:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by jeannebeanie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋