Hi, My fiance is pregnant for two weeks she believes. We cannot have this baby at the moment, and we have to abort it. Is there a pill that can prevent this pregnancy or is there any other way. Please help. Thank you very much.
2006-06-19 03:42:33 · 34 answers · asked by American_desi_rules 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
go to the chemist and get the morning after pill, go to the doc and get birth control and go to the store and get condoms
2006-06-19 03:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the easiest way to prevent pregnancy is abstinence.
You should never do something that you are not ready to suffer the consequences for.
And secondly there is 2 ways out of this. None of them include a pill. The pill, you have to take it within 72 hours of intercourse. You can either be a murderer and kill the baby by abortion, or you can put the baby up for adoption for the ones who try to have a baby and keep having them taken away by a higher power (GOD). This is always the better of the 2 choices.
I will tell you what, I have been pregnant 9 times and do not have a baby out of any of those pregnancies. It is a sad thing. I just adopted a baby 2 weeks ago. I took him home from the hospital and I have been waiting 8 years to adopt an infant. There are so many of us out there and we all think that it is quite unfair for anyone (not just you) to take the power of GOD into their own hands. Giving a baby up for adoption is the best gift you can give anyone. But by all means, do not kill the baby.
2006-06-19 03:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by mygirl46360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Friend there is only one pill that can cause an abortion that is RU486. It is available, at last look, only in france.
However, there are some herbs when ingested can cause miscarriage. I remember reading about them on a website.
Now for the big question. What reason would you have to abort this child? He/She didn't ask to be concieved, it happened as part of the love that is shared between you. You may find at some point in the future that this can and might effect your marriage. Reconsider your decision to abort.
If it is a monetary considerations then you should have considered that before having intercourse.
If it is the social implications, well there was a time in histroy when men and women would be looked down upon by society if they started marital activites early and the women becaome pregnant. That is not so any more, in fact it is considered bad if the couple are not having sex and she isn't pregnant.
Please, I say this again, reconsider your choice.
2006-06-19 04:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's sad !!! her doctor can give her an induction med. that will make her abort the baby without the clinical abortion...but really if your not able to raise a child you need to re-think things and STOP HAVING SEX NOW!!... I lost a child when I was 17( I was married) and I was so upset and mad because I wanted that baby so bad and people like you think it's just a mistake and that you can make another at a better time in your life that is just crap there will be no better time! it took me almost 2 years to get pregnant again after that! when I see a child that is about the age of the one I lost I feel so empty and sad... you will never forget about that life you choose to end.... we humans should not have that power!
2006-06-19 03:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by JeNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abortion or actually having the baby is the only option, unfortuanatly three days after unprotected sex the morning after pill will not work, but you can only have an abortion if you are under 26weeks pregnant so dont put it off. after all its your decision, maybe you ought to both discuss it properly an abortion is a hard thing for a woman to go through, she will need lots of support and it should not be treated like an ordinary trip to the dentist or the pharmacy it is terminating a babies life and should be thourghly though through. good luck huny!
2006-06-19 03:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by hannah b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is the morning after pill but I am very much against that. Just keep in mind you are KILLING your little baby. You may never have a chance to have another one. God may not give you that opportunity. It's your choice but keep in mind that it causes a LOT of heartache. You fiance' needs to KNOW for sure so go buy her a pregnancy test!
2006-06-19 03:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and why can't you have this baby??? why kill it, there are plenty of people in this world that can't have children and would love to adopt, so why abortion? carry the baby to full term and give it up for adoption if you and your fiance is not ready to have a baby to care for! and on the other hand if you are engaged to each other and shes now pregnant, then why don't you guys talk about marriage and have the baby and keep it!!!??? you both made the baby so you both should be and have responsiblity to raise your own baby!
2006-06-19 03:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do think of that as sort of a homicide but yes there is a pill. I think that the pill is the worse way you can go! There is the surgery (not really surgery but that is what they call it) Its all basically the same price. You just have to call around.
With the pill the miscarriage happens at home in the toilet! I don't know if she can handle that.
2006-06-19 03:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by T Burr 22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant you have a baby at this moment?!! You made one. A baby is not a throw away item. You can do a morning after pill but keep in mind that she is the one who has to live with the consequences.
2006-06-19 03:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by hatingmsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she missed her period. Do a pregnancy test before you start getting to worried, then you can decide what you want to do. There is now a pill that can abort a pregnancy.
2006-06-19 03:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by KLAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The only way is to go to an abortion clinic to get an abortion. It may seem strange but if both of you agree to it, it should be ok. Personally, I think you should just consider adoption. There is alot that comes along with abortion because you both knew the consequences ahead of time. Guilt is the biggest consequence. Please don't consider abortion. Good Luck.
2006-06-19 03:46:43 · answer #11 · answered by i have a taste for waffles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋