i loved my bf like no other thing in this world but he was taking advantage of my trust he was going around with two more girls when i asked him he said this not true but all the condition made me to believe that person who told me about his affairs . but i still love him
2006-06-19 03:29:30 · 9 answers · asked by aditi dev 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sweetheart.. you will never "get over" that one that you love... The only thing you can do is try to learn from your mistakes and move on.
As much as you loved him.. you must face the fact that he did not love you the same way............ if he did he wouldn't have been cheating on you. You did the right thing by leaving, now be strong, hold your head up high and don't let someone hurt you again. Right now you are like....... "what the fukk is going on"
Take time to heal.. take time to remember.. take time to prepare... never to go through this again..
Kisses and Hugs.... BE strong!
2006-06-19 03:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not forget him you will not forget and you should not want to. Experience is what makes us stronger and teaches us what outlets we should not stick our fingers into again. What's going to heal you is time, space and effort. You did not fall in love over night and the cure is going to be a long slow one, but you will be ok. You will learn and grow and you will look back and feel totally differently than you do now. If you allow yourself to you will come out on the other side of this victorious with or without him or any other mate. Spend more time with yourself, getting to know you and spend more time with friends. TTL - tears, time, and laughter.
2006-06-19 03:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to want to move on. You don't want to forget about him or what he did to you, because you will be doomed to repeat it with the next Casanova. Think of this as a chapter in your book of life. You are now onto a new chapter and it is time for you to turn the page. It's simple, decide to move on and you will. Decide to frolic in the past, and you will.
P.S The longer you keep this question on the board, the more you are continuing to frolic in the past. Three words to live by : Just Do It! Good Luck.
2006-06-19 04:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by Wonder Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that he's such an a**hole.
I've never forgot anyone I've ever love. Just the pain and heartbreak fades over time. But it does take a long time.
2006-06-19 03:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Blackbird2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u know the person who told u is not making this up, does the person have any proof? well u can forget about him easily by getting busy, doing things to occupy ur mind.
2006-06-19 03:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perfect medicative is TIME,
U will understood that he didnt deserve u
When u find Mr. RIGHT, u will feel like u never love sombody before, Trust me
2006-06-19 03:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by elizabeta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first step - know that it was NOT ur fault, and there's nothing you could have done to change things. he is what he is.... irrelevant of what you are. and yes, U deserve better.
2nd step - go and make it up to all those people whom you have ignored for his sake... things will automatically improve.
2006-06-19 03:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love your self MORE, and know that you deserve to be treated with love and respect..
2006-06-19 03:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by younglady7826 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll find someone else like his friend just kidding do what feels right to u
2006-06-19 03:34:06 · answer #9 · answered by hootiegurl132@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋