After abortion,does it change the way a man feels about a woman or does it make them much closer?

Question

If the decision was done by both the man and woman but the guy still is on her side en comforting her thru her stress en depression.

Answer 1

Personally, I would never talk to a women who murded my Baby. I think it ends every relationship that has had to deal with this horrible issue

Answer 2

the answer cannot be generalised as human nature is'nt predictable. also the reaction of an individual also depends on the situation, personal believes etc.
some times many men due to their lack of knowledge start thinking that it was the womwn's carelessness that the much wanted baby was lost.even if it was compleatly out of the women's hand.
at the sametime with the now popular idea of women's librelization many ladies incorrectly believe that no one (not even the legitimate father of the baby) but they have the rigth to deciede wether the child should be born or not and many often go for abortion without even bothering to even inform the father... both the situations are unfair n can cause resentment.

Answer 3

looked at some of the answers first. . .lots of belief systems at work. . .nothing is more personal that the decision to have an abortion. . .how a couple talks about decision and makes decision is most important. . .no one else can really tell you how you will feel. Where are you and your partner in your relationship, is he an equal partner, and does he care about you and your concerns? If he does, then the seriousness of the discussion may move the relationship to another level.

Answer 4

It all just depends on the man. Some men may hold it against a person for doing that then other's may get closer because that's what they wanted to be done.

Answer 5

If you mean that the man is the father of the unborn child...i think the reason why he wants it aborted its because he is not ready to marry you and doesn't want any commitment so how can he gets closer to you?

Answer 6

Abortions are rough on relationships.

Every couple I know who has gone through an abortion broke up within three months of the procedure. This was also true for a relationship I was in.

Answer 7

well..for your and your man that you had it with..if you both agreed to this decision then it will bring you closer. To anyone else who knows you they might/will look down upon you for their believes. If you start a new relationship your new guy might not think that is good and not want to be with you!

Answer 8

depends on the reasons for the abortion and the individuals involved. I think that the underlying relationship determines the outcome, not the circumstances...if it is a strong relationship from the get-go, nothing can tear it down... if it is not, then anyhting that comes up becomes a crisis..

Answer 9

well i talk from x-periance...... I did it once and i regret it for the rest of my life but, it was something that my man and i both decided..... we both went threw the ups and downs and 8 yrs later we have 2 kids and we r married........ So it depends on u guys..... If u'r doing it out of last resort then good if u'r doing it cuz maybe u aren't that good of a relationship theni doubt it'll work

Answer 10

Loving men always expect their own baby , with a great enthusiasm. it is the symbol of manhood. it gives a man his identity as a father , a married good familyman. abortion often comes with monetary benifits if the man thinks so. Only an unworthy incapable man insist on doing it.THINK AGAIN ABORTION CANNOT BRING A MAN CLOSE TO YOU . IT WOULD RATHER BRING HIM CLOSE TO YOU PHYSICALLY BUT DEFINITELY NOT TO SHOULDER YOUR DISTRESS.