2006-06-19 03:27:44 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Say no. he can love you without having sex with you. If he pressures you he doesn't love you, he only wants to use you. be careful. there are many bad consequences of having sex without being mentally and physically prepared.
2006-06-19 03:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dulcinea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would look into myself and see if having sex is actually the right thing to do. I may have the desire, but will it really help the relationship, or will it do more harm than good?
Personally, as a person that was sexually active as a young teen through teen age years, I think it is better to wait. I distracted myself with the pursuit of obtaining sex, and I am now 26 in a job that isn't in my career area since I didn't go to college right out of high school, thinking if I just had fun and slept around everything would be ok.
2006-06-19 03:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...do you care about him? Do you think he cares about you? Are you really into the relationship? No matter what anyone says, and I'm not religious, you will always remember your first time. Is he the type of guy who can make it really special?? enjoyable? My advice is to hold out for a while yet. If you have to be asking on a web forum, you must have some doubts. Don't let him pressure you into this. Hope you make your own decision though. :)
2006-06-19 03:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by knowetal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was never about the virginity, really. I used to think that if someone gives up their virginity for you thats a sublime and wonderful gift they can give, so it would be sweetest to give it up to your husband/wife. But then apparently, not everybody thinks this way some may want you to have more experience becuz then you'll be better in bed and some may want you to be fresh like a naked potato, while others just prefer you to be a little experience but not too used. For me it would just be my own preference and its got nothing to do with how my other part would feel in whichever circumstance.
2006-06-19 03:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this bothers you tell him that you want to wait a while longer. If he loves you he will understand, if he doesn't wait for you to be ready he wasn't worth it in the first place. but if you are ready to not be a virgin anymore, make sure that you love the guy, make sure he is gonna stick around, and make sure that you have safe and protected sex (condoms,make sure he doesn't have stds). Another thing you have to ask yourself is....am i old enough to be able to do this.
2006-06-19 03:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on how much you like the guy. If he keeps asking and you say no then that should be respected. Dont sleep with him just because he is a boyfriend-sleep with him because you truley want to and you love him-hopefully he feels the same way.
2006-06-19 03:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by hatingmsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I feel like I'm not ready, I won't have sex. Despite the virginity issue, I'd think if I don't want to, then he can't have it. Ask yourself if you're ready and will you regret this later. If your heart says no, I'd say no to him too....
2006-06-19 03:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by meetha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no and find a new boyfriend. If he is gonna pressure you into something like that then he isn't for you. You have made a decision to remain pure and if he can't respect that you need to move on.
2006-06-19 03:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by bobseveneleven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, learn how to speak English.
Second, cross your legs and get an education, don't start pumping out babies until you are married and have a decent job.
Third, buy your boyfriend a Penthouse and a bottle of lotion.
2006-06-19 07:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by scotty mayo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is not a game..if you feel you are ready for it..then go for it..and better not to lose your virginity like this..you will regret.
2006-06-19 03:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋