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2006-06-19 03:23:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's cheating on you and you find it's hard to tell your bf that it's over? Get some spine, dear, and tell him straight up and get on with your life. Why be with this loser longer than you need to?
2006-06-19 03:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and tell him that you can no longer be with him because he is cheating on you. Like some guys he might say he's not or say that he will stop, but no matter how much you want to you just need to tell him that its over and that you need to go on your own way. In my opinion a person that is cheating on their bf/gf wants to end the relationship but just doesn't cause they think they can have both. Don't let him do that to you.
2006-06-19 10:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by BabyBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if you can't tell your BF goodbye because he is cheating on you then somewhere inside you still want him. Why would you want somebody who would tell you lies and constantly hurt you. I'll tell him for you!!!!! You have to stand up for yourself and be strong. You need to break up with him immediately because all your life is going to be full of heartache. Sit down with him personally and tell him how he has made you feel. Let him really see that he has really hurt you. He may try to apologize or deny it, or get angry, or even try to change your mind. Down fall for either of those games. He does that but then he will cheat on you again somewhere down the road. I'm begging you please if he has cheated on you before more than once he'll do it again regardless. When you tell him how you feel and you don't want to be with him anymore because he does that to you, don't except anything else from him. Listen to what he has to say but let him know it's over and walk away. Then go wild girl!!! Don't ever let a guy do something to you that you wouldn't do to him. Good Luck. If you seriously want me to do it I will. But it would be better if you did it yourself.
2006-06-19 10:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Heather T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really difficult when you love the person because you are scared that he may eventually walk out of you life. You are hurting that is why you think of breaking up with him but at the back of your mind...it is hard to let him go and the same time it pains you that he had cheated on you.
2006-06-19 10:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~Very easily. If he is cheating on you... why are you still with him anyways? You should have dumped him when you found out. Just tell him you know he's cheating and then say it's over. I know it's probably hard because you love him.. but you deserve better.~
2006-06-19 10:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by Cupid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth and stick 2 it.tell him that he is a cheat and you want nothing more 2 do with him.whatever u do do not fall 4 his promises of change it never last long anyways.u will be much happier once you move on and can find someone who loves u the way u should be loved 4.
2006-06-19 10:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating on you, there should be nothing hard in telling him it's over because if he is cheating on you he probably don't deserve you.
2006-06-19 10:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by mylove06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll first of all find the prrof he is cheating....lay it down in front of him and tell him this is what he has choosen and he made ahuge mistake by losgn you. but one day he will know the same pain that youa re feeling. I would tell him you loved him and now since he was selfish it is time to love yourself,. good luck girl and you should be proud for leaving......you are a STRONG GIRL>>>keep your head up
2006-06-19 10:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared. Just come straight out with it. You don't need a Cheating Man in your life. No women does. We are to good for them. Good Luck.
2006-06-19 10:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS HARD TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE BUT SOMEONE WHO CHEATS ON YOU IS WORSE THAN BREAKING UP WITH SOMEONE...HE HURT YOU AND DIDNT CARE ABOUT YOU'RE FEELINGS...HE DIDNT LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO STOP...
YOU'RE DOING THIS FOR YOU NOT FOR HIM. PEOPLE CHEAT AND ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. IT WILL ALWAYS BE IN IS HEAD THAT MAYBE HE CAN CHEAT AGAIN AND YOU WONT FIND OUT... YOU WILL ALWAYS THINK THAT HE'S CHEATING ON YOU WHENEVER HE'S NOT AROUND YOU...WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO YOU LOVE AND BUT YOU DONT TRUST? WHY WOULD YOU LOVE SOMEONE WHO DOESNT LOVE YOU BACK?.. WHY WOULD YOU BE WITH SOMEONE WHO HURT YOU..AND MAYBE WILL HURT YOU AGAIN...?
DONT WASTE YOU'RE TIME ON SOMEONE WHO WILL JUST HURT YOU...
JUST LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE HURT AND YOU DONT WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO WILL HURT YOU..AND IF HE SAYS HE'S REALLY SORRY TELL HIM YOU CAN FORGIVE BUT NOT FORGET BUT YOU WOULDNT WANT TO BE MORE THAN FRIENDS WITH HIM..BECAUSE IF HE LOVED YOU OR CARED FOR YOU HE WOULD'VE NEVER DONE WHAT HE DID...
2006-06-19 10:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by *sunshyne* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋