What should I do?
2006-06-19 03:22:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's great! Think about it.....let them all look...stare and wish they were with her. But there is only one guy going home with her and that is YOU! You da man! I think you need some confidence in yourself too. You are crazy about this girl and you know she looks hot...that's why you get jealous for others staring at the samething that you thought was hot. But, don't forget.....if you got this hot girl....surely there are other girls that think you are a good catch too. Guys just go to the extreme when checking out girls. So...if you two trust each other....let it go. Don't let that ruin what you have with her. Enjoy what you have with her. You got her...if she wanted to be with those other guys, she wouldn't be with you. Let them stare...that's all their getting...a look.
2006-06-19 03:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by highroller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you jealous because you think that she notices other guys, or because she is in some way encouraging these looks? If not, be proud of the fact that she has chosen to be with you, and that other guys are jealous of the fact that you two look so happy. If you think that she is intentionally trying to get the attention of other men, I would strongly recommend that you talk to her about it- in a non-confrontational way. Keep in mind, there is no way that the two of you are going to have a happy, healthy, relationship if you can never go out anywhere, so keep your eyes on her and not on the other guys who are watching....I guarantee you will both be happier!
2006-06-19 03:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by sptfyre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever look at other women? Men always look, all the time. You have to accept that, and it's something you should already know. If your girl is a hottie, she's going to attract a certain level of attention. Instead of being jealous you should be proud and a little boastful. Think to yourself, "Ha, she's mine, eat your heart out." Then treat her right so that she stays yours.
2006-06-19 03:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tina T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definately have abandonment issues, maybe one of your parents left you when you were a child. maybe someone in a previous relationship cheated on you but you can not the past interfere with the present cause its not the girls fault you got hurt before. maybe discussing this with her will help her understand why you are so jealous. you need to work on changing your jealous ways cause you will eventualy end up old and lonely if you don't stop your jealous ways.
2006-06-19 03:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by guerisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stop, or you'll drive her away. a mature young lady wouldn't get a thrill out of seeing you react that way either. instead, take the looks she gets as compliments. she is YOUR girlfriend and she cares about YOU. all they can do is look and admire. walk with her like she's your prize if you have to. know that all these people can do is look, and it's okay if it makes your girlfriend a little happy too. if she's beautiful she shouldn't feel bad about it. as long as she isn't overly vain, b/c too much vanity can get ugly.
2006-06-19 03:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ease up, dude. Don't you WANT to have a hot girlfriend that other guys check out....so you can be like "HA! SHE'S MIIIIIINEEEEEE!" And, I hate to break this, but she may even....*gasp*....look at other guys sometimes too! We're not dead here, and there are some hotties roaming about! But, if she's with you, holds YOUR hand, laughs at YOUR stupid jokes, you're in like Flint! Don't let it bother you!!!!
2006-06-19 03:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Breezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proud! My boyfriend just laughs when other guys look at me because he knows they can't have me and they're probably thinking you're the man for having such a smoking girlfriend!
2006-06-19 03:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Dazed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay that is very normal for guys to look at girls but you
you've got to keep together because your girlfriend will interact with guys at work what are you going' to do? are you gonna follow her.when something like that happen again just think of how pretty she is and she is all yours.
2006-06-19 03:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by hisham m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're feeling insecure. And that you don't trust her and yourself. Having an attractive girlfriend should boost your ego. Don't let insecurities deflate it. If you can't help it, try talking to your girlfriend about what you feel, and ask her to be more understanding.
2006-06-19 03:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by betchabygollywow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check your age. The older you get, the less jealous you become
2006-06-19 03:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Darthritus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋