i have no friends, no life, and no family. I am alone. What is the point of going through each and every day like this. Too me, there is none, but i keep on going, expecting that something will happen. As a result, nothing does. I am tired of being like this. I'm tired of being alone. Please help
2006-06-19 03:19:54 · 19 answers · asked by theone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to someone, go to church, volunteer. There's plenty of places you can visit and meet different people. You just gotta get out there instead of on your computer.
2006-06-19 03:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
This may sound stupid, but have you tried going on a singles line and putting an add up even if it is just for friends. Or you could go to myspace or something and look up people in your area and get to know them and maybe hang out with them. I know its not fun being alone and nobody should be alone. If you ever need a friend to talk to you can always email me or something.
2006-06-19 03:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by BabyBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes feel this way too. I have family and friends! I think it can be a lot of things! Might be that I need medication I am not really sure! But what I do know is that I have god! You might think it sounds cheesy but it is the honest truth! I keep myself busy with projects and all sorts of things! With God around just think that you are never alone!
2006-06-19 03:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you try to meet people and stop thinking what is the point on going on like this it's not helping if you don't go on people who loves you will be very upset think positive and try to go out and enjoy life try to take life as it comes you will be a better person for it I'll be your friend whenever you need to talk just ask questions okay and stop being negative it's not good to think like that and love can't be forced it comes naturally enjoy life when you least expect it ,it will come and be positive and god is always with you
2006-06-19 03:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take advantage of the time that you have alone and feel good about it. Learn to love yourself. If you are not happy about the way you look or the way you feel, fix it. Go to the gym, read a book, try a new hobby, learn a skill, change your hairstyle, try new food.
People are attracted to people (socially and/or romantically) who are happy with themselves and like themselves.
It sounds like you haven't given up yet, so work on liking yourself. Once you do, people will flock to you.
Good luck and keep your eyes up (never get caught looking down)!
2006-06-19 03:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by le5aew 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think your the only person in the world that feels this way...I bet there are a dozen persons in your neighborhood and at your place of work that feel very similar as you...The question is what are you waiting for, get involved, projects/clubs at work, Church, and in your neighborhood...you need to put yourself out there so others can appreciate the person you are..good luck.
2006-06-19 03:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
solitude is OK with me but loneliness is not and I think you are
experiencing feelings of loneliness.I'm the solitary type of person
and I live all alone but I don't feel lonely.there are so many ways
of entertainment.having fun does not necessarily means to go out
clubbing.it all depends on the type of personality you are.find out more about yourself,take a personality test,get informed about the
extrovert-introvert subject,two types of personality with very different view of life and lifestyles.
2006-06-19 03:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by JUAN G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you need to go out and do something. Things don't happen to people, people happen to things. People aren't gonna just walk in your door and become your friend. You have to go out and meet them. Show them that you are worth their friendship and maybe even more. Make the most of everyday and take advantage of everyday that you've been given.
2006-06-19 03:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Wanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the other answers are good, but also don't be negative when you are out with people. Most positive people want to be around other positive people. Also, you could volunteer at an animal shelter - it makes me feel good and animals always love to see you.
2006-06-19 03:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out, meet people, be a friend & friendly to others & your world will look up. I think you also might be depressed, so you might want to check with your local health department about getting some counseling.
2006-06-19 03:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no from now on consider me afriend im so lonly even at work iam a secretary im totally not happy in my life i have afriends but by name my job is afull time one in the lunch break i stuck in the office coz i dont have money and friends my boy friends left me one by one iam arab 25 years old single plz b my friend
2006-06-19 03:28:57 · answer #11 · answered by stloa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋