i was going out with this guy forever but we finally broke it off when i found out that my friends liked him. anyway, he did not want to give me up so he asked me out again, i said no even though i liked him because i did not want to hurt my friends. when he found out why he just went and asked my friend out instead. during their relationship he started writing me all of these love letters talking about how he wished he was still with me. should i have told my friend or was i a good friend for keeping this from her so she didn't get hurt?
2006-06-19 03:19:51 · 7 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your friend. Save her from him. He is a dog!
2006-06-19 03:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i just think that you gave a little too much friendship. if you were already with thins guy and your friend started liking him then she should've been the real friend and backed off. especially if he wanted to be with you. Now if he is doing all that then you should tell her. It'll probably hurt her more if she found out that u knew and your friendship could probably end over that anyways. but it's all up to you!
2006-06-19 11:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, shes the bad friend for goin w/ some1 u broke up w/...u just dont want her 2 get hurt,theres nothing wrong w/ that...but yeah she has the right 2 no tho...& u didnt no she liked him in the first place, did u???ur not a bad friend...u just dont want her to get hurt...u do need 2 talk 2 her about it tho...
2006-06-19 10:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have rejected him when he asked u out again and cos u didnt agree and he got to know that ur friends like him, he's just using them so its better u tell ur friend that the guy doesnt love her and that he's doing that to get back at u.
2006-06-19 10:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you done wrong the first time, if that guy is with you, your friend should have held back and not interfere. It might have been your "true love" you know, but well you gotta learn that there are things you should talk about with your friends and there are things you should not talk about. you should definitely talk to that guy about those letters and it will help you see if it is worth to talk to your friend or not
2006-06-19 10:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by lisss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's doing this while he and your friend are going out you NEED to tell her because that means hes just using her to get to you. if they arent going out dont tell her because its not exactly wrong of him to do that if hes single. whichever the case ignore him. he will hopefully eventually get the point.
2006-06-19 10:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by TonzOfLove4U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend seems to be the bad friend she should have been happy for you she found a way to break you two up and then he chose to stay close by dating her
2006-06-19 10:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋