i was in a abusive situation and i still love this person i havnt seen him in months it is like i have a bond with this guy i dream about him alot and im sad i know im in a better place and doing good it has been a one day at a time thing for me im getting better but it just sucks sometimes or most of it i do stay busy but i dont know if i can get into another relationship and that scares me
2006-06-19 03:16:48 · 4 answers · asked by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You might want to get some counseling. Seeking a person of that nature and/or staying in the relationship is not healthy and I would find out why you don't value yourself enough as a person to get out. You probably think you do value yourself, but a person that does would say bye bye after the first abuse given.
Chances are if you still feel the same way you will seek the same kind of person. Get some help and good luck!
2006-06-19 03:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what you are doing. Take it one day at a time. I know that its hard to get over somebody that you really loved even if it was an abusive relationship. You will be able to get into another relationship it will just take time. You will find somebody out there who will treat you the way that you deserve to be treated.
2006-06-19 03:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by BabyBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can but dont just jump into a relationship right now, once u know what to do to get over it.
2006-06-19 03:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since u haven't seen him in months, then just be friends for awhile, take it slow and ask him to the movies or sumthin...
2006-06-19 03:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋