Why is it so hard to find a good women now a days?

Question

Why is it so difficult for men to find a good women. A lot of them are untrust worthy, back stabbing women. Why? Why do women marry men just to get thier posetions? A man works so hard to get the stuff that he has until a women comes to take it all away. Are thier any good women left out their in this cruel world? A discription of a good women. Hard working, virtues, loving unconditionaly, respectful, intelligent. The womens duty is to be the mans back bone. His support. Behind every great man is a virtues women. What happened?

Okay, I see that I hit a soft spot. I did'nt mean dutie I meant 50/50 in a relationship. I'm 23 years old and this is the kind of morals I was brought up with. Be respectful, honest and hardworking. I do my best. I would just like to find a girl that is the same. A women that loves the out doors and is faith full, not just to me. sorry if I insulted you ladies. Was not my intentions. What I meant was is their any young girls, about my age or a little older with thies characteristics.

Answer 1

It's not, difficult is to find a good man

Answer 2

First of all the way women are the way they are NOW... is because of the history of men. Women nowadays are getting smarter. They are playing the role of the men because they have grown up in a world seeing all their friends getting hurt by shady men. Plus finding a good women is not in a bar, club, party, or beach party. Obviously she loves to party which means she loves fun and options. You really should be asking why isn't there any good men around anymore? Women are growing up in the world not trusting men. It's not their fault you can't find one. Maybe your looking in all the wrong places and having a totally wrong perception doesn't help. And most of the time.... the best one comes along when you aren't looking. But remember if you have the mind set that your women is to sit at home, clean, have a job, and take care of you.... you won't find one. Women don't fall for that one anymore. A relationship is 50/50. Meaning you share the relationship and everything in it. There are still some out there but look in a place where you would actually find those types of women.

Answer 3

Oh, I agree. It's utterly impossible to find ANY singular plural these days! Just the other day I wanted to find one elephants at the zoo, but the keeper said I was only allowed to find either one elephant or I'd have to settle with the fact that "elephants" means more than one. Very frustrating!

Seriously though, if you're a "lustful jerk," don't expect to find "good women." Women of virtue are put off by men that think with their other head more often than they should...

Actually, the best women aren't getting dumped on all that much either - they are doing the dumping because if they are really bright, they know what they want, not just who they think they should be. I'm surprised you even think they are difficult to spot in a crowd since I can usually pick them out right away. The problem is, so can other guys, so you have to expect to have a LOT of competition and if you're not all that wonderful, then you shouldn't be surprised that other guys are beating you out of the running because she will expect a guy to be the same.

Loving unconditionally is a Christian ethic, but you are confusing this ethic for what happens with a personal relationship. It's one thing to love in general - to BE loving unconditionally, but to engage in a marriage-minded relationship without judgement of character is foolish. Perhaps you'll say I'm wrong and I'll say, "All is vanity and nothing is new under the sun."

So your first step is to be someone respectable and virtuous yourself. For polishing your image, please consider cleaning up your grammar first!

Answer 4

There are absolutely women out there like you are seeking.
Many women today are already personally equipped with everything they need.. a stable job, good money, and a strong personal life. The only thing missing is a significant other.

Since many women are in the workforce today, making decent salaries... some seem to be hasty when it comes to having a relationship.. because they are quite fulfilled already. This is where many of the women you are seeking may be.

It is true, that some women are as you say... many people come with alot of baggage.. sometimes, though, that baggage can be gone through and sorted into a wonderful thing. This is also true with men, though. :)

Best of luck... and remember, relationships... the best ones.. usually come when you are not seeking them. Take care to notice signals from people you may not be paying attention to. Many times good women are hesitant to make the first move. :)

Answer 5

I think it's difficult for men to find a good woman because most of the women have had bad run-ins in previous relationships.

I'll be the first to admit, I'm jaded. I don't trust men, because it all seems to turn out the same every time.

I think if men would be a little more respectful, hard working, and intelligent, themselves, women would respond.

Answer 6

women do not get married to get mens possesions. do you actually think with your attitude that you are a good man? when you get married, you give all of yourself to a woman. your heart, your love, even your possesions. If you cant make that commitment, dont get married. Women are treated right off the bat as someone that will divorce him and take his possesions. they are not his anymore, you enter the marriage knowing full well that yours is hers now. your things, her things, become our things. the problem is we want to treat marriage as dating, and the moment we decide the person does not meet our expectations, we want out, but on our conditions. dont get married right away, find the right person. take your time, what do you have to lose? except your stuff right? if you really want to find someone worthy, stop looking for someone that wont take your things, and worry less about your things. they are only things. the love and partnership you get from having someone in your life is far more fufilling than anything you will work for. God has given you everything you have, so in essence it all belongs to him anyway. he have you your job so you could work hard, and he gave you your ability to work hard. nothing is yours. but the love of a woman, that is something god has created just for you. A woman is created for a man, and a man is not complete without the woman. with this attitude, you will find your mate. Good luck, and God bless!

Answer 7

It is just as hard for you to find a good woman as it is for us to find a good man. It goes both ways you know. Oh yeah and the womans "duty" as you put it maybe your first mistake. There should not be any duties in a relationship for either person. Just honesty, trust, communication and respect for eachother and the rest will fall into place. Good luck in you search.

Answer 8

You actually expect to find a woman you can trust? Hahahahahaha. Ah, man that's too funny. I guess you have been living in some dream world where women don't just care about money, money, money, car, money, good looks, money, size of penis, money, money, your fashion, money, etc. It's nice to see you woke up and found that women aren't what you want. They are what they want and they will use you for what they want until they are done with you. Then they just toss you aside and find another. Get used you to it. C'est la vie.

Answer 9

because you want the "bad girl" to date & the "good girl" to marry but the truth is, they're one & the same. I think if you were looking for a good woman rather than someone just to help get your rocks off for the moment you might, SURPRISE, find the girl of your dreams

Answer 10

if you ain't no punk holla we want prenub we want prenub those are very true words get a prenub befor you marry any girl so you can keep you stuff as for good girls left there are some but not like you think is good cause you want one from the 1930's

Answer 11

I think perhaps all the good women are hiding away with all the good men. Or maybe, it's all just a myth...

Perhaps it could be because you say "DUTY"....like you're living in the 50's or before.......

Get out of your cave Cro~Magna Man...