is my husband cheating?

Question

i need help i found an e mail from my husband to a female co worker it said hello beautiful this is my new email hes not the flirty type i came on to him when we were dating hes shy i asked him and he said no they are just friends but i dont belive him and its makeing me sick please help

Answer 1

WEll I feel ya girl..last night I found a girls number in my husband's stuff and I seen someon was on the phone so I picked up the other one and he was tlaking to this girl .They didn;t seem to be flirting but I could tell there was "something" weird going on. He said he would call her at work. It is devasting and shocking i know...but for any married guy to be e-mailing another women then something is up or if not YET it will be....I would not let him know you are onto him...and do investigating....check all his sent stuff in his e-mail although now he prob got anew e-mail you don;t know about....just get sneaky...

Answer 2

If I were you....I wouldn't make too big of a deal about the e-mail.... YET!!!! Keep Quiet and open you eyes. Listen and look for other clues. Keep tabs on him and make notes. Lots of men are very good at hiding affairs. When he says he is going to be late for work...make sure he is really working and check to make sure the pay equals the extra time....or better yet drop in on him. Check his phone records on recently called numbers. Usually a man will call his mistress as soon as he leaves the house and right before he comes home. If you make too big of a deal about the e-mail and accuse him of cheating, he may try and cover his tracks too hard.....let him get his guard down so you can catch him if he is seeing this woman or any other woman. You go gurl!

PS- I almost forgot....if he's cheating...most of the time there will be money missing that he can't account for....he may be spending money on her.

Answer 3

Well now this is a difficult question. Has your husband given you any reason not to believe him in the past? Do you know this co-worker at all? I would suggest that you not sit a fret over it, that will just make you on edge and start you believing he is doing something. I would recommend you give him the benefit of the doubt, but also watch for tell tale signs, working late, dressing nicer for work, reasons to go off on weekend alone.

Answer 4

You will never know the honest truth if he is cheating on you or not until he says yes or you find hard proof that he is. He could however just be flirting with her or it could be the start of an affair. Speak to your husband again about this and if he gets angry for you asking this then he is as guilty as can be. Always remember this saying, 'The truth hurts'. Good luck and i hope nothing is happening that you wouldn't like!!

Answer 5

~I wouldn't worry about it yet. Try to dig a little deeper before you confront him because it could be nothing. You could make it worse if he thinks you are spying on him. Has he given you any other clues that he might be cheating? Just take this as an eye opener and start searching for other clues.. and if he is cheating... trust me you will find out. Guys aren't that smart about covering their tracks when they cheat. It should be easy if you suspect. But same time, it might be an innocent email. Just be confident.~

Answer 6

I think that he wish he could do more with this friend. I know that I have a good friend and her, husband when he calls my home he always says, to me Hi good looking, and I know he would go with me, just the way he says things and looks at me. But I would never go with him. But yes I think maybe he would love to but just by him saying things like that to her makes him feel good. But if I was you I would keep my ears open, and my eyes open .

Answer 7

if you found the email that say's hey beautiful and he says that it's just a friend and he's shy he's cheating but to be on the say side you find out who the woman is and ask her most likely she'll tell you the truth if your intuition is telling you he's cheating most likely he is

Answer 8

Unless you have alot more evidence than an email, calling a girl beautiful is just a compliment not an indictment

Answer 9

Ask him point blank about it. Communication is the Key. You will know if he is telling the truth or not. Talking on e-mail is emotional cheating.

Answer 10

im a very jealous person and if my husband called anyone but me beautiful, i'd be pissed. You have every right to snoop. I'd keep looking and talk to him a lot. I'd also research her. If she is married call her husband and see if he has found anything or has any worries.