One of my husband's workers lost everything in a house fire in Nov. I have a lot of just like new clothes his 3 yr. old could wear.
2006-06-19 02:48:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
either send anonymously via mail or say 'We got a lot of cloaths from people when our children were young. I would rather these cloathes be used than go to waste.'
Most parents are glad to recieve help of any kind.
We are very well to do -though not stinking rich. We still accept claoths,books and toys from family and friends whose children have outgrown them - and we give things to our family and friends when or children outgrrow them -even the well to do ones.
2006-06-19 02:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by dude 4 · 6⤊ 3⤋
I really don't think you would embarass them or offend them at all.
You are not offering their child clothes because you think they cannot financially take care of their family. They had a terrible, terrible experience. My parent's had a house fire and lost everything and they were so grateful for friends and family who tried to help them by replacing so many things for them from furniture to clothing. Losing everything is not easy and takes a very long time to replace and I think they would appreciate any kind of help from you. Your husband can always mention that you have alot of good clothing you no longer need and if they would be interested in having it for their child.
2006-06-19 11:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by 2179 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me they won't be offended if they just lost everything in a house fire. You can easily say, "I was just going through my child's things for the goodwill, and I thought about you guys. Could your child use some things? They are in good shape, and gently used! I'd be happy to give them to you instead, if you think you could use them." Most likely the answer will be, "SURE, THAT"S GREAT!" Anyhow, if its, "NO THANKS!" that's only the worst that could happen. At least you have a heart to help someone in need! If they are too prideful to accept hand outs on there down time then that's on them. Don't be afraid to help people because of fear of offending them! Good Luck!
2006-06-19 10:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by strawberrysudha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, I actually know someone who lost everything in a house fire this past spring, and she wasn't offended at all by the generosity of her community. Au contraire, every donation of cash, food, or household items brought her to tears of gratitude. If you want, buy a new toy for the child or a grocery store GC and include it with the clothes. I'm sure she would be very grateful for the help.
2006-06-19 09:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they would be embarrassed at all because if they lost everything then they would be appreciative of the help that any body is giving them!!! I would be straight forward with the person and just say hey I have some extra cloths you can look through and have whatever you want. Regardless of how you ask it is always the thought that counts and how sincere you are! Good luck with everything and best of luck to your friend!!
2006-06-19 09:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put them in a box without a return address and mail them.
If they have just lost everything in a fire I doubt seriously if they would be offended or embarrassed if you gave them in person. If you don't know what to say when you give them. Try this, I was going to give these to Goodwill. If you don't need them I can still take them to Goodwill.
2006-06-19 10:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by namsaev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband would not be out of line considering the circumstances if he asked his co-worker, "We have a lot of just like new clothes your 3 yr. old could wear. Can I bring them to you tomorrow?"
2006-06-19 10:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask them if they are wanted??? I give away lots of clothes (and have had lots given to me) but they really may not be needed Nov was months ago I'm sure they replaced his clothes by now but just ask
2006-06-19 09:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by laura468 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine someone being offended or embarrassed about receiving clothes. We used to circulate hand-me-downs when a I was a kid. I would simply make the offer. If the co-worker is too proud to receive them then it's their loss.
2006-06-19 09:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by ali.firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a thoughtful idea. I don't think they would be offended. If they are really nice clothes then I think they would appreciate it. Pay them a visit and take the clothes.
2006-06-19 09:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about offending them, generousity is the key. If someone lost everything, I'm sure they would accept just about anything. Quit worrying about what everyone else may or may not think...do it for yourself! Live your life that way also...if you want to be generous than do it. Be a straight shooter!
2006-06-19 09:54:00 · answer #11 · answered by slimm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋