he has this new female friend at work i know its ok to havea female friend i found a email that reads hi beautiful here is my new email i hope you get it please help im sooo scared
2006-06-19 02:47:48 · 18 answers · asked by pookie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hes not the type to flirt i had to come on to him so hes just not flirty
2006-06-19 02:54:51 · update #1
hes not the type to flirt i had to come on to him so hes just not flirty
2006-06-19 02:55:39 · update #2
is this woman married , gay, what? i have female friends and am happily married with no desire to cheat on my wife. It is possible. trust in your love and look for other warning signs then talk to him. Is he sneaking around? Is he getting upset or short with you over little things that used to not bother him? if so you might have something plausible. btw think about how your sex life is is there still one there? good luck
2006-06-19 03:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by RM802001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to him? Even though he may not admit it (if he is) you'll know just how close they are. And that will give you a better idea if hes cheating or not. More than likely he just likes the attention and its nothing serious. If he is, (and hopefully hes not) he won't be able to hide it forever. Just keep the communication lines open between you two and don't nag him about it and don't talk about it all the time. The last thing you want to do is drive him towards her by nagging him.
2006-06-19 09:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Wanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are just friends. Also its never good to look in a significant others email, mail, or other private things. It shows lack of trust. If your husband has done something recently or in the past to suggest he was cheating or is talk to him about it. If you talk to him about and you still can't shake that feeling go to a marriage counselor with him. Don't over react because it could possibly be nothing at all.
2006-06-19 09:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found similar e-mails to a girl from my ex-boyfriend. I know that being married is much different, but I was out the door so fast after that. I found out later that he had cheated on me no less than 6 times.
2006-06-19 09:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by bored in Michigan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront him about it...Pay close attention to his reaction and you should be able to get to the bottom of it. I don't know...based of off the email, he may not be cheating at this point, but that doesn't mean it may not be coming....Talk to him about it....
2006-06-19 09:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by mesofemme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be but i am not sure. Talk to him and confront him and see what he says and you may also want to talk to the girl and see what she says too. Try emailing her back someday and see what she has to say to you. Do not tell her who you are though.
2006-06-19 11:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband shouldn't be writing emails to other women. It may be time to move on, but talk to him about it first.
2006-06-19 09:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you care if he calls another woman "beautiful"... if you do than he's cheating. Anything he does with another person that hurts you or effects your relationship is, in my mind cheating.
2006-06-19 09:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by LilP24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Express your concern to him but don't attack him. I hope he will be honest with you, but for most men, their first instinct to the question is to deny it. Good luck and I hope everything turns out well.
2006-06-19 09:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by Brina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have "friends" with the opposite sex unless they are gay. Anyone who says, "he's/she's my friend" has a sexual interest in the person. Its human nature.
your husband is cheating.
2006-06-19 10:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by snookums2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋